- 7 years ago
My wedding is 10 days away. I’m totally stressing out times ten. Last night Fiance and I got in a bad fight that left me all emotional and upset, he’s okay and is trying to make it up to me but I just cant let it go.It was a stupid fight, but still. He doesn’t think when we fight (not being mean he’ll even say it…) and says really mean things. Normally we’re really happy really in love, but these fights (when they do happen) are just depressing.
Plus I’m definitely strugglign with the bride syndrom of everything needs to be like a movie or novel in regards to us about to be getting married. Which I know isn’t realistic.
Then Future Mother-In-Law and Future Sister-In-Law are driving me up a wall. They are still trying to change things after I set plans. We have a unique venue and have to take our photos prior to the ceremony. So we have like 2 hours to do all formal photos! And Future Sister-In-Law tells me she’s bringing her boyfriend to the fam photos, even tho it’s just supose to be immediate family. I don’t want him in the photos. Plus on top of it, due to our venue they have to show up at their assigned time. I specifically stated that if you had a date to our wedding they would meet up wiht the person at the wedding. FSIL’s boyfriend is not immediate family. We don’t have time to include him, plus he’s not really family. And these are our photos. This isn’t the first of the issues with his side. They’re always trying to make things what they want, and I feel like they don’t care otherwise. I always keep my mouth shut, because I dont want a bad relationship with them over stupid wedding stuff. But I’m about to snap from internalizing!
Am I turning into Bridezilla? I’m so stressed out, I’m having a hard time eating or I just sit down and pig out on the junk foods. I don’t know what to do. I’m an upset emotional wreck.
Any recommendations, words of wisdom? Any fail proof plan for me not to have a mental breakdown? Please Help!