(Closed) Tough Situation..Wish FI would understand

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: What should I do?

    Just have both sisters in the wedding party to keep mom happy

    Have no wedding party

    Have just best man/best woman

    Other..explain

  • Post # 17
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    17 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I understand what you are going through. One of my brothers suddenly decided he was a girl, I say it like that because he/she does not make an effort to look like a girl and plays the “I-still-hace-a-weiner” card when hitting on my friend.

     

    We had a huge fight and he doesn’t take hormones yet, has a depression but does not take his meds. He decided me, my bro and everybody else are no longuer family.

     

    I send you tons of hugs and never let what they say bring you down. It’s not your fault and they shouldn’r blame this on you 🙁

    Post # 18
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    208 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Elope!  Well, kidding…kind of.  Put your foot down hard and fast with the family (and do whatever you want) or just solve the situation completely and elope.  Sending support your way no matter what you choose!

    Post # 19
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    756 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think you should ask them to be in the wedding, and assume that they won’t accept. Obviously your mother is also unstable, no one disowns someone over this, but perhaps by asking you would make peace while assuming since you aren’t close that they won’t want to be involved. Also, being a Bridesmaid or Best Man only means wearing a dress that day and showing up, you don’t have to include them in any other activities.

    Post # 20
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    216 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Perhaps it’s time to get disowned? Seriously you need to stand up for yourself. We have mental illness in our family and this shit never happens. I hate when people use this as an excuse, I have a mental illness and my parents would never let me get away with this. 

    Just say no to your sisters in the bridal party 

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