(Closed) Toys for beginners?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

A small bullet vibrator would probably be a good start.  Depending on your guy he might freak out about a huge vibrator or something.

Post # 4
29 posts
  • Wedding: April 2013

There are some things you can get to wear while having sex. One is called the WeVibe or something like that. Personally I find it hard to wear while having intercourse (the movement and the fact that a vajayjay is only so big), but it works for some people.

The rabbit is a classic (for good reason), but as PP said, it could be intimidating for some men new to toys.

Post # 6
183 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

My husband and I tried a couple of toys, definitely would recommend the rabbit. 😉

Post # 7
9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Have you two discussed using sex toys before?  Is this to surprise your [future] husband?  

I agree that a vibrator would be a great starter, but my first toy ever is a rabbit.  I love it tons and Fiance has fun with it as well.  He enjoys watching me use it, etc.  So, I was wondering if maybe you two have discussed this before or not.  =) 

Post # 8
29 posts
  • Wedding: April 2013

@QBbride:  Yes, they’re good! Probably there’s one that is a rabbit-style one that is amazing (TMI, I’m sure), and there’s also a smaller bullet-type one that is also great. 

Post # 9
656 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think it also depends on the amount of money you want to spend. I absolutely adore the JimmyJane line, most specifically the Form 2, however, compared to the other toys on the market, they definitely aren’t the cheapest or even close. But I think they are worth it. I don’t have to worry about batteries since they are rechargable, they aren’t made of a really gummy material, so they don’t get covered in lint even when you clean them… plus they are fully submersible so yay for shower and bath time fun! They are EXTREMELY powerful as well.

Post # 10
408 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@QBbride:  I love love love my lelo. I’ve had it for sooo long now and it’s still new looking, and works like a champ 😉

Post # 11
5494 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

One of our favorites is a vibrating penis ring.  It’s worn during sex, keeps him going longer and provides vibration for you.  It’s a win win.  And it’s not at all intimidating.

Post # 12
4272 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

A little vibrator would be more then sufficient.

Post # 15
700 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2004

@QBbride:  I haven’t used the lelo ones, but I have heard good things about them. They seem a little expensive though. I probably wouldn’t bring a rabbit vibe on my honey moon, that’s more for solo use IMO.

Post # 16
958 posts
Busy bee

@Meowkers:  +1000000 Love that.

I love trying different lubes too. KY Yours & Mine is good. NOT a fan of warming lubes. Too hot during sex! If you’re looking for something tasteless, and scentless Astroglide is good. Sometimes stuff just gets … dry during sex. Astroglide is great to use with toys too.

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