(Closed) Tracking RSVP’s After Deadline

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: How many guests did you have to contact for RSVP after the deadline?
    Very few to none! : (4 votes)
    16 %
    25% or less : (10 votes)
    40 %
    Close to 50% : (11 votes)
    44 %
    Over half... what a nightmare! : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    11 posts
    • Wedding: November 2011

    We just passed our RSVP deadline (the 12th), and are just starting to call people (several people clearly mailed them on the 12th, so we gave it a few extra days).

    I’d say that we are going to have to call around 30%. Another 10-15% didn’t mail in their cards, but did RSVP via telephone or in person.

    Post # 5
    2191 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    My RSVP deadline is this Saturday (22nd) and we are only missing 8 out of 49 invites sent. Total of 120 ppl invited and 85 have accepted via rsvp card or verbally. 

    Post # 7
    4824 posts
    Honey bee

    Ours was an online RSVP which almost everyone did the first week (probably because it was convenient) We got word of mouth RSVPs from a few people, but we knew everyones status for the most part before the deadline.

    Post # 8
    30 posts
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I thought we would get a lot of rsvp’s at the last minute or in the week following but we only got maybe 1 or 2 in the mail. I was completely shocked at the number of people ( family) that didn’t respond. We had to call these people numerous times to get an answer and we still have a few that have still not responded. RUDE!!!

    Post # 9
    568 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    After the mail came on the day they were due we started calling and emailing.  The process was a little easier than I had expected but we did have a good portion of people to contact.  It is kind of annoying but hey, what can ya do?

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