(Closed) traditions that you think are bulls***

posted 4 years ago in Traditions
Post # 3
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8044 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

The garter one creeps me out a little. It seems like it’s a bit risque to do in front of everyone.

Bouquet toss.. I’m not throwing my $300 bouquet!!

Bride’s family paying for the wedding. Screw that!

Actually, most wedding traditions seem to annoy me.. that’s why we’re having a very low-key ceremony and dinner at a nice restaurant after. I am cutting most traditions haha. I guess I am not a wedding person!! I am fairly traditional in general, so it’s kind of amusing how I am bucking tradition with my wedding.

Post # 4
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646 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I know (and used to agree) that it’s presumptious and bad etiquette to include registry info in a wedding invitation, but the more weddings I am invited to, the more it makes sense to just include the little registry card or something. Never will I roll my eyes again when I see this. People bring gifts to weddings! People need to know what you want and need! You spent the time to register! 

@canarydiamond:  We didn’t do the garter or bouquet tosses either. Tradition, schmadition.

Post # 5
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5407 posts
Bee Keeper

Most of them!

I think having a bridal party in matching outfits is kind of silly, actually. FH wants one though. 

Bach/ette parties. News flash–it’s really not your last night single…at all. 

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

First dance. It seems soooo awkward to me to have the guests watch you sway back and forth like a junior high dance until they’re allowed on the dance floor. We are totally skipping this. I never watch them at other weddings anyway, I just find it kind of weird.

Post # 7
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2007 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

First dance, bouquet/garter toss, bachelor/bachelorette parties, the fact that everything needs to cost an arm and a leg because of the ‘w’ word

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@BlondeMissMolly:  +1 to the Bach/ette parties. I don’t get it. 

I think garter tosses are weird and the bouquet toss I don’t really understand. I also don’t like that a lot of people assume they have to get married in a church for their marriage to be real. I understand if you are really religious, then it makes sense but if you aren’t then why? 

There are a bunch of others but too many.

Post # 9
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7999 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

To be honest, you could say that almost every tradition in the world is bull, if you were that way inclined…

Post # 10
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45647 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@bebero:  The difference is that a shower happens when your friends decide to give you gifts, not when you decide you want gifts from them.

Post # 11
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889 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

baby showers, bridal showers, bachelotte parties, bachelor parties, housewarming partiees, having bridesmaids and groomsmen, not wearing white to a wedding, not wearing beige to a wedding, not wearing silver to a wedding . . .

 

Post # 12
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889 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

@bebero:  it does not come off as gift-grabby; it is gift-grabby.  

Post # 13
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5504 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Pinkmoon:  +100 This!

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m shocked at the people who don’t like the first dance! It’s the one thing I always cry at during weddings – even if I didn’t cry at the ceremony!

Interestingly enough, I don’t like the bouquet toss or the garter toss, but I do still want to wear a garter and have FI get it lol.

I also HATE showers. I hate going to them, I don’t want to have one, I don’t want to sit there opening gifts, I do think they’re gift-grabby and not sure why they’re ever ok, I just don’t get them, I think they’re helpful but really if you just stopped going to people’s showers, saved all that money up, you would have enough money to buy your own damn sh*t when time came for it!

I’m very weird bc some traditions I absolutely love and others I hate so yeah.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

The cake cutting.  We skipped it.  As my DH put it…why aren’t we cutting the steak, or the fish we served?  Why cake?  I don’t even like cake.  I didn’t eat any at my wedding and I definitely didn’t want it fed to me.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@bebero:  “Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a silver sixpence in her shoe.”

The garter toss can turn out awkward. For example, I caught the bouquet at my cousin’s wedding and my cousin caught the garter. He looked the other way while putting it on my leg.

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