Post # 1
I am honestly FLABBERGHASTED by what I have found.
I googled my WeddingBee username, because I wanted to find an old thread of mine and I was too lazy to log in and go back through my posts. And what do I find??
My username has come up on not one, but THREE OTHER WEBSITES! NOT WEDDINGBEE, OTHER WEBSITES!
These are forums where people (I’m assuming weddingbee users) post about us, link to our threads, and basically talk sh*t!!!!!!
People have linked back to my threads about FI not washing and my trouble with my inlaws, as well as have 80 page discussions about other users on here, rating how horrible they are, etc etc!!!!!!!
THIS IS OUTRAGEOUS AND I AM SO LIVID RIGHT NOW.
This is supposed to be a supportive community and SOME OF YOU have decided to adopt a high school mean girls mentality and laugh at us and our problems.
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THE WORST ONE, ABOUT MY FI:
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FURiOUS. DO SOME OF YOU HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO?????
Post # 3
Honestly, this is the Internet. Anything you put online is available for public consumption.
Post # 4
ummm well we are putting ourselves out there on the internet. it’s a public forum. it sucks that people make fun but they’re strangers so it doesn’t really matter. if my real life friends were talking shit, then i’d be upset but i just don’t care what strangers on the internet have to say about me. you can’t let it get to you.
Post # 5
@MrsCreeToBe: This is just…weird and slightly obsessive, not you but the fact that people would talk about what goes on in this forum on other forums.
Post # 6
@MrsCreeToBe: It’s pretty ridiculous behavior. That said, this post isn’t going to help. Just ignore it. They are spending their time making fun of people. You can choose to spend your time getting mad about it or doing somthing productive.
Post # 7
Yeah, these websites have been around for a while and have been discussed at length. Sorry, it really sucks to see that, but unfortunately there is no way to stop it.
It is the same as Regretsy and websites that make fun of DIY fails. If you put it out there on the internet, there is a strong chance someone will make fun of it.
Post # 8
I am so MAD though! It’s not COOL at all. Is there no respect!
Post # 9
Side note: I just googled my WB name and apparently it also belongs to someone who plays WOW and has breast implants. LMAO. We really couldn’t be any more opposite!
Post # 10
@MrsCreeToBe: Nope. It’s the internet. Being faceless and nameless make it easy for people to act much differently than they would in person. Anything you put out there is open for anyone to read, comment and do with what they please.
Post # 11
They might not necessarily be other Bees- like it’s been said, it’s a public forum, you don’t have to sign in to see what was typed.
I would certainly hope it wasn’t an actual Bee doing this. I like to think of us as above this behavior.
Post # 12
@MrsCreeToBe: The silver lining: If you ever have kids, you will be FAR more aware of cyber-bullying and how hurtful it can be. Let this be a lesson to all of us. At least you are anonymous. Sending you an internet hug to ease the pain, but just take comfort in knowing that at least you aren’t fucked-up enough to be one of the “mean-girls”
Post # 13
@MrsCreeToBe: I had no idea sites like this existed to be honest. I just feel bad for them that they have nothing better to do with their time. It’s all anonymous, so if that’s how they feel better about themselves, let them at it.
Post # 14
@MrsCreeToBe: the deepest corner in hell is reserved for traitors. I think it is horrible but some
boring I have nothing to do people … They live on mocking other people…. Too bad for them. Once I got into an argument with a bee who is not engaged not even close and had planned every single step of her wedding that could have taken place 8 years from now lol….she was soooo evil! Anyway I felt bad for her and ignored her and laughed when I thought of her complicated situation. I suggest you do the same
Post # 15
I try not to look on those sites
Post # 16
WOW I had no idea. That is low. BUT, I am reading your original post and “cycle of neglect” made me LMFAO. Girl, I hope you’ve pulled your head out of your ass since then.