(Closed) Transgender Questions

posted 5 years ago in LGBTQ
Post # 31
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Busy bee

Daizy914:  Sam is straight. Yes Sam has to tell partners he is trans. 

Generally Sam will date straight or bi women. However if he doesn’t have bottom surgery, lesbians who are attracted to masculinity may make an acception.

Let’s be serious ladies, a trans man is a man who only wants to please you in the bedroom….General if they have bottom surgery their penis won’t work and if they don’t they won’t necessarily want you touching/reminding then they have lady bits. 

You can be trans and bi or gay not always meaning you are straight. 

Post # 32
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Newbee

OK so first, we now refer to Sam as HE because HE is no longer a SHE since HE has SRS, right? (Sexual Reassignment surgery)

Yes, Sam is a man and you should refer to him with he/him pronouns. However, pronouns have nothing to do with SRS. If someone identifies as a man, that person is a man, regardless of genitalia. Some trans men haven’t had surgery or don’t plan to have it, but they are still men and should still be referred to with the proper pronouns.

Sam is attracted to women, now that Sam is anatomically a male, is Sam a lesbian or heterosexual?

Sam is a man and any man who is only attracted to woman is heterosexual.

Which leads to my next question, if Sam dates a woman who is heterosexual, does Sam let this woman know “hey btw I used to be a female?” I ask this because let’s say things get serious and Sam doesn’t tell this person that he used to be a she and finds out other than Sam telling her, that person might possibly feel lied to.

Sam may wish to tell his partner, or Sam may not. Regardless, no one has any obligation to come out to anyone, even if they’re dating. Many trans people have been murdered and assaulted for coming out to partners. If Sam’s partner finds out and feels lied to, why should they? Sam told them he’s a man, which is true. He’s probably been a man for a long time, long before his SRS.

Or would Sam only date a person who is a lesbian but then I am confused because Lesbians are attracted to women, so how would this person be attracted to Sam who is now a man?

Anyone who is attracted to men has the capability of being attracted to Sam, considering that a trans man is a man. Heterosexual women, homosexual men, bisexuals of any gender.

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 6 months ago by  nightwing.
Post # 33
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: August 2005

Daizy914:  Anytime you meet a transgender person I promise they won’t be offended if you just ask them what they would like to be referred as. If a female to male transgender is dating a female then yes he is heterosexual. If He was dating a male then he would be gay. It just makes sense. Don’t think of him as a she anymore.

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