- 3 years ago
- Wedding: City, State
No, i’d sell that bitch for money.
No, i’d sell that bitch for money.
I always thought trash the dress shoots were either for broken engagements or divorces where the woman trashes her dress with her friends as a sort of cathartic experience. That’s how I first read about it anyway.
But either way it seems like a waste of a beautiful dress for a couple of photos that wouldn’t have much purpose.
Nope, I’m keeping mine in storage, and I don’t think that’s wasteful. Maybe I’ll eventually do something with it, but it’s beautiful and I want to keep it. I don’t have children, but I agree with the PP that no one’s daughter is going to want to wear their dress. It’s personal to the wearer; your daughter probably won’t like it much.
Maybe I’ll put my dress on every year and gawk at myself in the mirror. Lol.
But i definitely agree that no one is going to want to wear their mother’s wedding dress. Maybe use parts of it if it’s sentimental to them.
Chances are, depending on what it is you are doing, you’ll still be able to keep your dress after it is over. I did a trash the dress shoot on the beach and put my dress through a lot, but after running it under the shower and taking it to the dry cleaner it’s in perfect shape. You might want to do some research on the different fabrics in your dress, and be sure you are ok with it if it does actually get damaged, just in case, but I think they can take more of a beating than we realize. In the end, those ended up being some of my favorite photos and I’m so glad I did it!
I think they are unnecessary and wasteful. If I fork out hundreds or even thousands of dollars on a dress that I’m only going to wear for a few hours, I would much rather it go to someone else who probably can’t afford a fancy dress for their wedding than just trashing it for some tacky photos.
I feel like trashing the dress is a trend that has come and gone imo. They were pretty popular at one point but thats kinda over now. I’m pretty practical so plan on selling mine if possible.
I didn’t do the type where you spray paint it or burn it, but we got in the water and rolled around in the sand and not only did we get some amazing pictures, we had so much fun.
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I think it’s a dumb concept… if you truly don’t care to keep it/have it then at least donate it, so many brides in need or prom dresse/material in general needed.
I don’t think that’s wasteful at all.
Our wedding day was about us, this is about me and my dress. Is it selfish to want a ton of amazing pictures of just me in my dress? LOL
Not that I don’t love my wedding pictures, I do, but i want MORE. (I LOVE pictures)
A week after the wedding I went swimming in mine. It was alot of fun. A member of my new husbands family took the photos, so great bonding time. When we were done I threw it into the washing machine. It looks fine, the dress had way more damage from the reception.
I loved the photos so much, I’m using one for my avatar. In five years (if it still fits) we are going to do it again.
To me, getting some amazing pictures and making memories with the dress is so much better than putting your dress in a box in a closet and hoping that maybe your hypothetical future daughter will care enough to actually use it or part of it in their hypothetical wedding.
First, a word of caution: be very careful when doing a trash the dress session in bodies of water. Especially those that have fast moving currents. Some wedding dresses weigh a lot anyway but when wet they can be very heavy and this can be dangerous with fast moving water. A woman died in Canada taking trash the dress photos in a river.
I personally love trash the dress photos! 🙂 I “trashed the dress” 3 months after our wedding for my bridals. There were so many reasons it just worked for me. My dress was a clearance steal at $350 and I really didn’t think my daughter would want to wear it. Our photographer offered a free bridal session if we booked him for engagements and the wedding but I didn’t want to do tradition bridals portraits. I feel akward posing and sometimes I feel like some bridals come out cheesy so a trash the dress session was right up my alley. We went to a lake nearby and took pictures in a tree, on a rope swing, going in the lake and fully submerged in the lake. For the last portion of the session my husband joined me and we got pictures together. We had a blast and I LOVE my pictures. Our photographer let us keep all the negatives as well as the edited pics and so I have over 850 photos from this session. I think I love them more than our wedding day photos! I know it’s not for everyone but I don’t regret it at all. Also, I took the dress to a dry cleaning ASAP afterwards and it came back looking like it had never been in a tree or the lake. We are coming up on our 10 year anniverary next year and I’ve joked about taking it into the pool with my husband to celebrate. 😀
I would NEVER trash my dress. With alterations, I will have spent 7k on it. I would rather try to resell it, or donate it to another bride before destroying it.
Also, trash the dresses in water can be VERY dangerous if there is an undercurrent. Safety first, ladies!
So it’s not salvageable and I’m not really the type to keep a wedding dress I’ll never use again anyway. I thik I’ll just cut out some of the lace and put it in the wedding box with the other keepsakes.
ETA: I did originally plan on reselling or donating my dress – but I don’t think the condition is suitable for this anymore.
We are big into 4WDing so I might do this with DH driving my car:
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