(Closed) Trashing FH on facebook- vent

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Hostess
16195 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Ugh. I would be really upset if my fiance aired dirty laundry like that on a website like Facebook rather than just talking to be about whatever the issue was.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wow, that’s really passive aggressive and inappropriate. You know they are going to fight tonight!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I see posts like this from friends all the time.  I can’t imagine what they are thinking.  And then two weeks later I see a post that says “It’s husband week.  If your husband is your best friend and love of your life, copy and paste this post.”  Umm..yeah….right….

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Yeah, a college aquintance posted on FB a couple of weeks ago how underappreciated she feels in her relationship and how her husband expects her to do the majority of the work in terms of taking care of their kids.

Yikes, I was embarressed just reaidng that! I hope I always have the insight to go talk to my husband instead of posting Too Much Information on FB!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I always feel embarassed when people make those sorts of posts.  You just know any follow up comments are going to be used later on in the inevitable screaming fight.  (“Oh, yeah?  Well Bobby said you’re a d*** who doesn’t know how good he has it!”)

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

That’s terrible. I’d be devastated if Fiance posted something like that. I’m his #1 fan, and he’s mine. We keep that attitude alive along with open communication and it makes our lives awesome.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

My trashy cousin makes posts about her BF’s drug use, his cheating, and then posts things about what great love making they had.  I don’t even know how to handle her!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think a lot of women like to trash their husbands because it makes them feel like they have some sort of power.  I’ve had “friends” that I have distanced myself from because I got so sick of the husband bashing whenever the girls got together. 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I know a girl (actually the same one who posts about her child’s illnesses and bowel movements) who posted about how her husband had spent all of their wedding gift money and didn’t understand how to handle money and how she didn’t want to deal with him right now.  She said more but I can’t remember all of it.  People were like “I’m pretty sure he doesn’t want your business broadcasted on Facebook” which led to her saying she didn’t care but taking it down anyway.  I don’t understand this either.  I know I’d be upset if my fiance was posting bad things about me on Facebook.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I have a friend whose husband posted on facebook that having a wife was worse than having ass cancer…in exactly those words.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@redbullfanatic: That’s what I said. Even more so, after SHE took him out to dinner that night. After that I stopped feeling bad for her and wanting to hurt him.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@nqz100: very interesting relationship they have going!  i guess to each their own?  yikes

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