(Closed) Traveling for a year. What ring to get?

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
698 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

I would do a band… It doesn’t have to be a plain band, there are so many options out there for stonesless rings. Here’s my wedding ring- it’s still fancy an interesting without any bling:


I also really like this since it still looks engagement-y without any stones:


Or you could try something vintage like this:


Hope that gives you a few ideas. 

Safe travels, and happy impending engagement!

Post # 4
5145 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2010

 What about something like this (both from Heart of Water Jewels on etsy) with rubies or sapphires (still a stone, but they tend to not be very flashy and the bezels make them very wearable!):


Or a etoile-style/scattered diamond band – super comfortable and easy wearing and though there are diamonds it is quite an an understated look.


I am also a fan of just the plain old comfort fit band. I have a 3mm one in 14k yellow gold, and love it – so comfortable and easy to wear. You can then always add a flashier ring later and keep wearing the band 🙂

Post # 5
3529 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

 I think it would be neat to get the “wedding band” first, and then get the “engagement ring” for the ceremony.

Post # 6
698 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

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poppy77 :  I do find it comfortable! Much moreso than I thought I would. It’s super thin and I honestly don’t notice it at all if I just have that one ring on. I’m getting married next month, so I don’t have an “all day, every day” comfort stat, but I’ve worn it around the house quite at bit, and totally love it. 

Post # 7
161 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I’m in love with Catbird- I wish I had known about it before we got my ring. They have some very small, dainty rings that are very pretty but not flashy. Not all diamonds either, if you prefered alternative stones!




Post # 8
2342 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

You might just get bored of explaining the back story to everyone if you get a sort of placeholder ring. 

If you really want a ring, I think your idea of getting your wedding band first and wearing that is a good one. It isn’t your wedding ring until you are married in it, but it is recognised pretty much the world over that you are committed. When people ask to see your ring, you just say you are waiting until you get back from your trip to buy it so he proposed with what will be your wedding band. 

You are unlikely to be mugged for a plain wedding band, but were the worst to happen, at least it isn’t the ring you were married with so the sentimental damage is lessened. 

If you ae okay with a white metal, I’d recommend platinum as any activity related scratches or gouges can easily be polished out on your return without loss of metal. 

I’m a huge fan of plain wedding bands, you retain the option of a diamond eternity at a later date. They are classic and bomb-proof,, and I think they often set off the engagement ring beautifully. 

Post # 9
759 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I have a Tiffany infinity ring as my e-ring. I only wore it before getting married 

Post # 10
2342 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

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RayKay : All great options. I do love that plain band on you though.It gives me pangs as the 3mm plain band looked nicest on me without my engagement ring but I opted for the 2mm band as I think it looks marginally better with. However I do wonder whether the 3mm band wasn’t the more classic choice and I might have been over-influenced by the current trend for thin bands. 

Post # 11
9565 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

Im biased but I would get an etoile band! They are low key and lovely. Whiteflash will make them in any metal and MM on the cheap. They call it “scattered diamond band”. Use it as your wedding band when you marry and add an “engagement” ring or eternity 🙂

Post # 13
64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: City, State

I would go with a plain band!  It can be your wedding band when you get married, or an alternate band for future travels.  I don’t think I would invest in an alternate e-ring with stones, etc.

I bought a yellow gold band for similar reasons.  I wanted an alternate wedding ring that wouldn’t get damaged hiking, backpacking, kayaking, etc.  I put the ring on a chain when doing things that aren’t ring friendly (like climbing).  The band is really beat up now that the high polish finish is almost matte, but that just reminds me of our travels 🙂  Good luck with your trip, I am so jealous!!  … where are you going??

Post # 15
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

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poppy77 :  the stone is amethyst and the metal is titanium, which I love b cause I never worry about it and it’s super light!


This is where I purchased it, my wedding band just came in this weekend also!


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