(Closed) Tricky to determine/wishy washy RSVPs? Plus family drama to make matters worse!

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Ugh. That’s hard. Are you having a sit down meal? Or a buffet? I think if you’re having a buffet then I’d just count them as a “yes” and let them do what they want and if they turn up then great and if they don’t then it’s not to bother. If you’re having a sit down dinner I’d give it another week and then phone them and say “well if you don’t tell me a definite answer now then I can’t promise that you’ll have a meal at the wedding reception because I need to let the caterers know by tomorrow morning”. I had to do that for DH’s family who wouldn’t RSVP – it was amazing how fast the RSVPs flew in after that, regardless of all the family drama.

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