Post # 47
My boyfriend would rather diet than exercise. I would rather exercise than diet. He refuses to go to the gym or even do videos at home with me. I don’t want him to lose weight because he’s not fat, but I’d like it if he worked on his shoulders and chest because he has NO muscle tone there anymore.
Post # 48
That’s fantastic. Hopefully you can impart some of your knowledge and help him make the right decisions for himself. My SO eats a TON (like more at every meal than I eat in an entire day haha) but he’s still losing weight because he’s eating the right things.
Post # 48
Hey girl if you see this, get at us with an update! I’d love to know if you found a method that worked to get through to him
Post # 50
I can never understand when people say, ‘he should like me for me and not what’s on the outside’?
C’mon, do you NOT realize that there is such a thing as physical attraction? Do you not realize that we are all visual (especially men) and we are made that way for a reason? It is NOT shallow to expect that your mate/spouse work to also maintain a healthy weight. Of course I am not suggesting that they reject you for it and I am not suggesting that they even leave you for it. However, physical attraction is ALSO a component of a relationship, and a healthy one at that. To put your head in the sand and deny that fact is to deny science. Yes, he/she loves you for you but one of the reasons your mate wants to sex you up is that you turn them on and it goes beyond the mind – Fact.