- 2 months ago
- Wedding: October 2017
US bee here.
Recent gun violence has claimed the life of an incredible doctor (and 2 others) at the hands of her ex-fiance [https://chicago.cbslocal.com/2018/11/19/tamara-oneal-shooting-chicago/]. From all the articles I’ve read he seemed to have had anger issues and problems in the past and while it was unclear about his motives I’m sure their canceled wedding was one of them.
I am thinking of all the bees on here who have asked for advice to help with their relationships despite red flags. I’m thinking of bees who have been hurt and victimized by their partners. I’m thinking of bees who give warm and kind yet URGENT advice to LEAVE. But I’m thinking about how this woman did and it wasn’t enough. I want to do better as a bee to support anyone who may be in a toxic and dangerous relationship.
Sorry for the thought dump… I’m just feeling very affected by this story as it took place very close to where I work and family live.