(Closed) Trouble picking bridesmaids..

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
555 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think if they are doing all these things a bridesmaid normally does then I don’t think it would be weird to ask them

Post # 5
284 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

No, I’d be excited! It’s always fun to form new friendships and this could only make you guys closer. If you’re really worried about it though you can still wait a couple more months to ask. I waited 3-4 months to ask all of my girls and my Fiance still hasn’t asked all of his side of the party yet.

Post # 6
193 posts
Blushing bee

@anenglish15:  I dont think its weird at all but can I suggest waiting till the end of the year to ask them? Anything can happen in a year when it comes to friendships and weddings. I would wait a bit longer.

Post # 7
4673 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I agree that you have a lot of time and it might be a good idea to wait and see how your new friendships pan out.  2 months isn’t really a lot of time to judge if these friendships are long lasting and a lot can happen in a year and a half. 

Post # 8
3580 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think it’s a little premature to worry about it.  Give it 6 months and see how your friendships stand.  The way I would look back at it is – 40 years from now, will I – or will I want to – remember their names when someone asks?

Post # 9
9 posts
  • Wedding: September 2012

What’s the rush! July 2013 is a long ways off and picking people now (or stressing about it now) is not necessary. I would wait until about 8 months before the wedding. I asked someone at the six months before mark and it wasn’t weird at all. I read an article recently that said that one of the biggest regrets for brides was choosing people really early. Hope this helps and good luck!

Post # 10
60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Take it from me, a bride that regrets her choice!!! Leave it as long as you can but end of day you pick who you want, its your day!!! Dont be influenced like i was!

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