- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
My wedding is in July of 2013, so I have over a year and a half.
So I recently started a new job and haven’t been spending a lot of time with my old co workers. One of my old co workers I have been close with for 4 years, but I know she’s not really supportive of the wedding. She pretends to be, but I know it’s always in the back of her head. I’ve only spent time with her about 4 times in the last 2 months (I haven’t seen her in over a month and have only talked to her twice via text) and I feel like it’s always me making the initiative. However, I think she assumes she’ll be a bridesmaid because i’m not close to many people.
Then I’ve been at this new job for 2 months and become really close with 2 girls. We went to a bridal show together and we’re going to go look at a venue and they’re helping me with questions. They are super involved. Would it be WEIRD to ask these girls who I’ve only known for 2 months?! Would you be weirded out? They enjoy helping me plan, but is asking to be a bridesmaid too much?
Then I kinda feel bad I haven’t asked anyone because these girls from my new job and taking on the responsibilities of bridesmaids so maybe they expect me to ask them? I have over a year till the wedding so when should I make this decision? I got engaged 2 months ago and have purposely been waiting because I had a feeling I would be losing contact with some old friends. Do you think my new friends will think I’m only asking them because I don’t have anyone else? Because that’s not really what it is, I think my new friends are people I’ll be close with for years. I guess I’m just confused!