(Closed) trouble reconnecting with friend after B-party (i dont think i like her anymore)

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 18
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Kandiss16:  Okay, two big things:

 

1)  She may have been acting Princess-y in order to try to be more appealing or be accepted by these other girl friends of yours that she didn’t know.  It certainly wouldn’t be the first time a girl put on airs to try to fit in with a different crowd of girls.

2)  Maybe you just didn’t know that you didn’t care for her that much when you didn’t spend a lot of time with her in person, and now that you have, you realize you don’t have much in common and don’t care for her that much.  It’s perfectly okay!

 

Sidenote re: the racist comment.  Oh shit.  I literally just made the same kind of comment to my friend (who is black) this past weekend:  “I’m not normally attracted to black guys, but those guys were hot!” and didn’t consider it racist.  Eep, ignorant friend here.

Post # 21
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@Kandiss16:  Sometimes we outgrow friendships. Perhaps you are just now noticing that this has happened.

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