Post # 17
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Busy bee
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(Closed) trouble reconnecting with friend after B-party (i dont think i like her anymore)
posted 7 years ago in RelationshipsMemberPost # 18
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Helper bee
- Blonde17Jess
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2014
@Kandiss16: Okay, two big things:
1) She may have been acting Princess-y in order to try to be more appealing or be accepted by these other girl friends of yours that she didn’t know. It certainly wouldn’t be the first time a girl put on airs to try to fit in with a different crowd of girls.
2) Maybe you just didn’t know that you didn’t care for her that much when you didn’t spend a lot of time with her in person, and now that you have, you realize you don’t have much in common and don’t care for her that much. It’s perfectly okay!
Sidenote re: the racist comment. Oh shit. I literally just made the same kind of comment to my friend (who is black) this past weekend: “I’m not normally attracted to black guys, but those guys were hot!” and didn’t consider it racist. Eep, ignorant friend here.
Post # 19
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Busy bee
- Kandiss16
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
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Post # 20
Member749 posts
Busy bee
- Kandiss16
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
UPDATE: Not that i think anyone would really care buuuuut i thought i would post a little update..
I decided to give the friendship another chance.. just hang out one on one.. i invted her over for girls movie night.. I was actually kind of excited because hubby is out of town and its nice to have company..
weeeellll we had it planned for a couple weeks, and she calls me the day before and says that she has an opportunity to go to vegas with another friend (who she regularly talks about behind her back) and she feels “bad” for cancelling but its a “once in a life time opportunity” (???? i dont even know.. they werent staying in some crazzy nice suite??”.. needless to say i was pretty hurt..
(it comes off that im a bit jelous of her other friend, and maybe i am.. this isnt the first time she has cancelled with me to hang out with her.. she tells people we are “best friends”.. i dont treat my best friends like that)
a couple other things happen and i cant keep making excuses that “that she really IS a nice person”..but shes not being very nice.. we just dont hav anything anymore in common (we met in college) and im going to slowly end the friendship..
Post # 21
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Buzzing Beekeeper
- MrsPanda99
- 7 years ago
@Kandiss16: Sometimes we outgrow friendships. Perhaps you are just now noticing that this has happened.
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