Post # 1
Ok, we went to his parents house on tuesday, had a nice dinner. He gets a phone call from one of his wild buddies, one of the buddies that really doesnt show respect for his soon to be wife, like how soon like five years later engaged. Gimme a break. anywho he calls my FH phone while i am talking to his mother at the table, and he says oh Hi brad, oh you want to invite me out, saying this real loud so i would hear it. Oh you want a guys night out your girl went away for the weekend. So he says hear that hun, Brad wants only a guys night out with me to be there. So of course i am like thats alright and his mother is there like i am going to be like you F%%%** JERK WE HAD PLANS, BUT YOU FORGOT!!!!! So hes like ok see you there man. So my car goes down, isnt that funny, all of a sudden my car went into the shop and i can not get it back till tuesday. Get this my clutch for my windsheild wipers went!! Is that the stupidest thing you ever heard, of corse i get in shit for it, then i get all upset cuase i have no car. I get his truck, i had to drive him to work and of corse he has no gas!!! I have no money cause i have no job. (Got laid off) So he goes to this party gets his friend to pick him up at work, but then texts me saying i love you hun and please pick me up at midnight. so i have to wait at home to go pick him up at midnight. Then i think why is this night so dam important, IS HE SEEING STRIPPERS!!!!. iS HE GOING TO LIE TO ME, CAUSE HE KNOWS HOW I FEEL ABOUT IT. What if he does lie to me and then this little white lie will ruin my thoughts of marrying him, and just finding out he had lied making it worse then what it could of been wtih telling me the truth. Or will i go pick him up and him tell me after it happened that he had strippers and then Brad brought it on without him knowing. Which its aloud of shit cause the way he was talking to him on the phone, and the way he made me feel like i was retarded he had to say real slow, its a guy party hun.
(few minutes later)
I just answered the phone its my Girlfriend, shes going to a house party, well guess who wants to join, yea me. I will rip sh** up with his truck, yeee haaa
Post # 3
this was little difficult to follow… have you been drinking?? (haha! kidding!) regardless, I think you’re being a bit paranoid. although if your future hubs is in the habit of spending time with strippers instead of you, I’d be a little unnerved. (I don’t understand the whole being involved with someone and going to a strip club thing either.) I definitely think you should discuss your trust issues. and tell Brad to F Off 🙂
Sorry about your car and getting laid off… I’m sure you’re probably irritable because of that too!
Hang in there!
Post # 4
lol @gijosephine- i was just thinking the same thing! lol
Post # 5
That was really hard to follow!
I think you should go out and have a good time but don’t do anything you wouldn’t normally do because you are upset! You don’t know that he is doing anything wrong – he could just be having a guys night! And most guys nights do not include strippers!
Post # 6
- Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas
Hmm…not sure I understood all of that, but I agree with Future Mrs. Martin – don’t do anything you wouldn’t normally do because you could have totally misread what’s happening! Go out and have fun, but don’t do anything crazy!
Even if he was having strippers or something, two wrongs don’t make a right.
Post # 7
Ditto GIJosephine… I could not follow this post at all. But most guys nights are just going out and drinking.
Post # 8
Turns out i went out and had a good time, I said instead of waiting to pick up the FH i am going to pick him up when iam ready too. So i went out for drinks at this great pub. Oh yea i wasnt drinking, if you met me in real life thats how i talk, all over the map. Sorry girls. Yea so went out had fun and he was more worried about me then i was worried about the stripper thing. Even though it didnt happen he told me he wouldnt even, so i overreact about nothing. Geezzz yea i am on my period. HAHHAA. So i picked up my girls and then picked him up and we all went to a house party, didnt get home till 3am. I love those nights where i am just satisfied with the overall night. I love my hunny, i cant wait to marry him.
Post # 9
We joined WB around the same time… I think I remember you! Are you from BC?
You had problems with trust 6 months ago- are you always thinking he’s up to no good? That’s a really, really rough way to start a marriage.