(Closed) Trying hard not to love the expensive dress

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Miss Smashville:

You should talk to her about it.  Maybe when she tries it on she’ll love it, or hate it.  It won’t hert suggesting it.  If it is out of her budget and you both love it would you be willing to pay for some of it?

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Did she tell you how much she was willing to pay??  If so and this is below, then go for it!!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Miss Smashville: If $200 isn’t out of the price range you discussed, I don’t see the problem.

Post # 6
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Newbee

I would talk to her and have her try on the dress to see if she likes it if you are concerned with the price. 

I was having a very similar issue.  I really like a Wtoo dress but thought that $200 was a lot to ask my bridesmaids to pay for a dress even though they said they are ok with the price.  I personally wanted it keep it closer to $150, but they said they would be willing to pay a little more because they really like the Wtoo dresses as well.  Knowing that they like  the dress makes me feel not as bad about the price.  Even though they are ok with it, I still might chip in $25 on each dress just to ease my conscience.

I love the dress you are considering, btw.  I am going with a different Wtoo dress that looked better on my girls, but that is one of my favorites.

Post # 8
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Have you thought about getting the exact same dress made by a seamstress? The only challenge is finding one of course. But maybe your friends can refer you to one? Just an idea..

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I say let her pay. If  you’re really having a problem with asking her. When she buys, put $50 in her hand and say non-negotiable and smile.

If you have asked what she’d like to spend and she has confirmed a price, don’t argue anymore. That’s probably even more annoying you think she can’t afford it. So drop it. At which point just give her money and don’t let her decline. That way you both win.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

try finding the dress on prefectbridal.com…they are a lot less over there …good luck

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’d rather pay $200 for a dress I loved than $150 for a dress that I’m “meh” about.  I think if she’s discussed the price point, and this is within it that’s fine. 

Worst comes to worst, chip in if you really can’t handle the guilt. 

 

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