Post # 1
We were supposed to go camping this weekend at a county park that is very close to where our probable venue is (a refurbished barn). We’d never seen the inside, so I was super pumped to finally see it after swooning over the outside for months.
Well, the rain has ruined our camping plans, but he still wants to take a hike tomorrow —- at a park 45 minutes in the opposite direction of the barn and where we were supposed to go camping!
I am definitely disappointed. Obviously seeing this barn isn’t an important thing on his list. 🙁
I can’t help but be saddened by it, but am trying my best to not say anything to him (I’m still “waiting”, so I try to keep shushed!)
I just needed to tell someone! Oh, the joys of keeping wedding things to yourself….
I am dreaming I’ll come home and he’ll say “Oh, I was kidding. You didn’t think we would skip out on seeing the wedding venue, did you?! NEVER! I love planning our future wedding with you!” Bwahahaha! 😉
Post # 3
I am sorry your plans got ruined! I am sure he is just trying to make the most out of what happened, but don’t let that discourage you. I am sure there will be more opportunities for you to see it, and it will still be there when the two of you decide to do so. Don’t worry! If it does bother you that bad, you should definitely talk to him or a good friend about it, I am sure that will put your mind at ease.
Post # 4
Thank you, thank you! Positive comments are amazing 🙂
I think it really just got to me at that time, but I subtly said to him just awhile ago, ‘so we’re not going to see the barn?’.. He was honestly oblivious to the fact it was a big deal to me… It was actually cute and he said we can definitely go that way if I want to this weekend.
Post # 5
well it’s good that it might still work out! i’d probably be disappointed too haha. this is where guys being able to read our thoughts would really come in handy 😛
Post # 6
@gocubbies learn this: Men cannot read our minds. memorize it. If you want to see the barn just tell him you want to see the venue. They CANNOT read our minds. Trust me- if you learn this now, your marriage will be much much better.
~~old wise retread bride~~~