(Closed) Trying not to overthink…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2250 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@MadameX:  “How do you put this from your mind when you know everything is in place?” ….. IT’S SO HARD!!!! I really have no advice for you, other than to TRY not to get your hopes up every time it seems like there is an opportunity for him to pop the question, because there will be SO many of them, and you don’t want to be disappointed through all of these wonderful memories! Just enjoy your last few months as a girlfriend, because you’ll be a fiancee before you know it 🙂

Post # 4
1669 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I’m in the same place! My SO and I have decided on a rough wedding date, and we are also working on an engagement timeline for “next year” (probably in 4 to 8 months)

I’m also not anxious (heck, it isn’t even to the point yet where he could be asking) but I am SO EXCITED my eyes are bugging out practically. I haven’t had any disappointments yet, but I have to say I know I will get wildly excited every time sometime it COULD happen…happens.

I am really enjoying the waiting bit – like you – I get to be excited for it longer if it doesn’t happen, and I’m really not worried about it not happening at all.

I have no tips for you, but I find that a good session on here always brings me back to earth – people give good advice about not expecting it and staying in the moment.



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