(Closed) Trying to avoid FIL drama, but I really want to….

posted 6 years ago in Family
  • poll: Should I include a note to FILs relatives?
    Yes : (2 votes)
    33 %
    No : (4 votes)
    67 %
    Absolutely not given the situation, are you crazy?? : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    635 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I think you can tell your BMs that you don’t want to invite distant relatives. I don’t know FI’s side of the family well, so we just invited his aunts after asking his mom who she wanted invited. I didn’t feel comfortable inviting his female cousins, so we just stopped at the closest female relatives.

    Post # 4
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    3303 posts
    Sugar bee

    Not sure- since the BMs are throwing the shower and sending the invites, I would say no, do not send a note along with but it is ultimately whatever you feel comfortable with.

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