(Closed) Trying to be nice soooo doesn’t pay! (Rant – a bit long)

posted 6 years ago in Married Life
Post # 4
1855 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Obviously your husband is succcchhh a monster for trying to give them pictures. Eye roll.

That’s ridiculous and he didn’t deserve that.

I think you should both take a break from contacting them and ignore the stress. You don’t deserve it! Just ignore them, and I’m sure eventually they will realize that they were being irrational.

Post # 5
3626 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I hate when FI’s parents make him feel bad! It’s such a bad feeling. But I think it’s best to let him hash it out with his family. I wouldn’t want to try to get in the middle of their fight.

Post # 7
879 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Sounds like to me there are underlying issues that got vented on your poor husband.

Post # 10
363 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

My Mother-In-Law hadn’t talked to Darling Husband or I for years due to a loaf of bread and a newspaper. I wasn’t there but it was somehow my fault Darling Husband couldn’t bring these things to her so she flipped. Darling Husband gets so upset sometimes then angry other times but bottom line, even though Mother-In-Law is hard HARD work, he misses her. I wouldn’t want your Darling Husband to look back on this in a few years and still have a strained relationship. Giving it some time will hopefully heal it all. 

Post # 11
3692 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Too bad the BIL is not a widower.  The world doesn’t need people like her.

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