(Closed) Trying to be patient!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Hostess
23602 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Aww!  I think it sounds like it’s going to happen for you soon enough!  But definitely, maybe if there’s someway to be more “cool cat” about it by placing your faith in him and just believing that he will make it happen soon? 😛  Sorry, I didn’t do much to help, but just wanted to let you know it WILL happen!

Post # 5
Member
748 posts
Busy bee

@ColoradoGirl:  Read Mr. Bee’s plan! Just search for it on the website. It’s great to get your mind off of it. I’ve been waiting for a year (when we first moved in together) and now we’re approaching our 3 year anniversary. I’m positive he will be proposing this summer. All I can say is, you will go in waves. Sometimes it’s going to be unbearable, sometimes you’ll barely be thinking about it. Just accept each wave as it comes and relax, understanding that it is what it is and you need to give him time. Sometimes he just needs the time for this plan to settle in… men are like that sometimes.

Also, it might be a financial problem. My e-ring will cost about $500 (moissanite, white gold). Have you considered going with something other than a diamond? We’re doing this because I honestly like the moissanite better than diamond and don’t want to be walking around with a $2000 ring on my finger. I am clutsy enough as is!

So, you can try having an honest conversation with him where you just ask if there is anything he is concerned about in particular. If he really sincerely says nothing, then just let him be and try to focus on other activities. Go out with your girlfriends, work out, find a hobby you enjoy, anything that’ll take your mind off of it. Or just sit obsessively on Weddingbee like some of us here 🙂

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