(Closed) Trying to Convince Boyfriend to NOT propose?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Unfortunately, the proposal is HIS thing! And he probably wishes that he had done it already (seen as you are already planning the wedding).

Even though your solution makes sense I am sure he will want to stick to his personal timeline! He is probably really REALLY excited to propose to the love of his life 😉

Post # 4
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5498 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

He probably really wants to propose to you if he’s freaking out like that! It may also be an indicator that he already has the ring.

And may I just add that it’s really sweet you were thinking of him like that? Props to you for being so patient and willing to wait longer!

Post # 6
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1232 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

He was probably so short about it because he already has the ring 🙂 It will all work out either way. Good luck!

Post # 7
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6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Ya I would shush about the issue also. You don’t want him to think that you don’t want to get engaged now!

Sometimes the logically responsible decision isn’t the right decision for them!

Kudo’s for you for being so reasonable!

Post # 8
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Ok, I know this is a very old post, but I thought it was so sweet!

I know somebody who had to make a decision between a ring and a house. she chose the house. I think the whole family agreed that it was a good choice, their house is very nice! about a year later, he surprised her with a fairly large ring, and now they are happily married and getting ready to fill that house with kids. sometimes it’s worth it to wait!

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