Trying to cut a friend out… help! (LONG)

posted 8 months ago in Emotional
Post # 31
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2019

Oh cute bathing suit btw! I hope you reach your goal, bee!

Post # 32
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Helper bee

OP, I would send her ONE text saying something along the lines of: “Hi, I am not responding to you, not because I don’t care about you but because this conversation has blown out of proportions and has become ridiculous and immature. Once you are ready to talk to me in a rational, composed way, without involving ALL of our friends, I will gladly respond to you. Have a good one.” 

 

She will be in shock, then will probably blow you up even more but don’t budge. Ignore her until she calms down. It might take days but you need to make her understand that she needs to grow up and that nobody has time for such irrelevant BS. 

Post # 33
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Helper bee

Also, I would tell all of your friends who have been contacting you that this is between you and HER. And while you do appreciate their attempts to try to fix this, it is not helpful right now. Tell them you hope they understand and that it has nothing to do with them but that you need to focus on what is going on with her on your own, because the more others are involved, the more complex the issue becomes. 

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