(Closed) Trying to figure out all these hints…… Is it actually coming?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Sounds like your pending engagement is on the horizon! But i can see why he is waiting, probably wanting to get his house affairs settled and budget for a ring. I’m not sure about this christmas since he seemed to out himself on that surprise, but it is still a possibility!

If I were you, I would concetrate on building a great relationship with him and the engagement will come soon enough! My SO sounds a lot lke yours, in that you’ve had a lot of promising signs and you are on the same page in your relationship! Just keep trying to be patient…i know haha easier said than done! And maybe don’t ask anymore questions about it because it seems like he gave you a timeline and he wants to surprise you! My SO has had the ring since September so i’ve committed to shutting it up in the mean time! Sometimes I wonder what the heck he is waiting for, but I know we have a great relationship engaged or not so what’s the hurry!

Hang in there and welcome to the hive ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m with the PP. Work on strengthening and building your relationship with him, not so much focusing on when/if he’s gonna pop the question. The breakup definitely set your relationship back, so maybe start there? Figure out why it fell apart in the first place. I find that, unfortunately, the problems that were there in the beginning get worse (NOT BETTER) after marriage. Make your relationship airtight so that when he DOES ask you guys are rock solid.

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