(Closed) Trying to help friend whose girlfriend lives with parents

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Why don’t YOU offer to take her out for coffee or shopping or something so he can sneak over there while she’s out?

Post # 5
4824 posts
Honey bee

It can’t be that hard to figure out where the father works. He is dating the daugher. He could bring it up in conversation and go that route.

Or write a letter and mail it.

Post # 6
3303 posts
Sugar bee

He should stop by- if this is really what he wants to do, he will find a way.

Post # 7
46408 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

He could:

-phone and leave a message asking the Dad to call him

-ask to speak to the Dad when he goes to the home sometime to pick up hisgirlfriend. He doesn’t have to have the whole conversation at this time, just set a time to meet

-drop by sometime when he knows the girlfriend will be out and the Dad is home.

I can’t believe this is that hard for him to figure out.


Post # 8
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I think he should go over to “hang out” and while she’s in the bathroom, set up a time to meet. Or just be a man and drop by while he knows she’s gone and speak to the dad. My brother-in-law asked my parents while my sister was gone from her seat at a hockey game. If there’s a will, there’s a way.

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