(Closed) Trying to keep my hopes up….

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
3380 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@kansas_nurse:  keep in mind: since he knows YOU know he has the ring, he’s probably planning to do it when you least expect it, which pretty much rules out birthdays, Christmas, etc.  I’m amazed by you gals that know the ring is in your house and aren’t tearing the place up trying to find it!

Post # 4
757 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

It sounds to me like he has something very special planned! Stay positive! You wouldn’t want him to just propose one random day when he can tell you’re upset because he doesn’t want to deal with you being frustrated.

Post # 5
968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@kansas_nurse:  Just try to keep calm. Mine has had the ring for a month, and he told me the other night that he wouldn’t consider asking me to marry him for another YEAR. Your wait is going to be so much quicker, and it will be so much more awesome when he sits down next to you on the couch and asks you to marry him. 


I agree, he’s waiting until you least expect it. 

Post # 6
1762 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@kansas_nurse:  I’m sorry hunny. I just do not understand some men…..WHY ON EARTH would he torture you like that and what in God’s name is he waiting for?????


Post # 7
2529 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@kansas_nurse:  You know, I think this kind of behavior on a guy’s part is totally because he wants to surprise you, and he already has a specific idea of what he wants to do, and it’s not the same as what you think he’d do!

Don’t get disheartened. I know it is insanely frustrating and worrying, but if he talks about getting married all the time, the man is excited about it. He just has a particular plan that he’s waiting for. . . who knows when, but it really sounds to me like he has a plan.

Post # 9
600 posts
Busy bee

@kansas_nurse:  find the ring! and one night during the night put it on your ring finger! and when he wakes up say ” omg I do!!!!….how did you manage to put that on without me waking up”  he he 🙂 that will show him! or on second thoughts maybe just wait! i would absolutley go nuts knowing its in the house, I’d have the place torn apart and a metal detector out! i’m sure it will be worth it though as hes obviously going to wait and surprise you when you least expect it! Good luck 🙂

Post # 10
282 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

*hugs* He probably has something specific in mind that he’s planning! I doubt he just forgot the ring was there 😉 Waiting is hard, but you know that at some point it’s coming and he’s on the same page as you. I’m sure it’ll be a special proposal and worth the wait!

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