Post # 1
Soo the ring is in the house….ive seen it twice…..but yet it remains hidden…..as it has for the last 3 months almost 4 months….and every big relationship event weve had has come and past…..my birthday, romantic couples weekend trip, anniversary dinner, plus many other countless romantic perfect times….and still….nothing….no ring….I am on the SIU pact, but its hard when he keeps calling me his fiance, his wife, and asks about wedding venus….to wich I say were not technically engaged there fore we wont be discussing those things yet….and we drop it…
but i am trying to keep my hopes up…..its getting really hard….i dont wanna pressure him, but damn its getting old esp. when thering is here, both parents know, hes asked my dads blessing…and got it….and yet nothing….no movement…nada….
im really trying to stay positive here….but i guesse im struggling…
idk what im doing in this posts….maybe looking for support but i think just letting it out
Post # 3
@kansas_nurse: keep in mind: since he knows YOU know he has the ring, he’s probably planning to do it when you least expect it, which pretty much rules out birthdays, Christmas, etc. I’m amazed by you gals that know the ring is in your house and aren’t tearing the place up trying to find it!
Post # 4
It sounds to me like he has something very special planned! Stay positive! You wouldn’t want him to just propose one random day when he can tell you’re upset because he doesn’t want to deal with you being frustrated.
Post # 5
@kansas_nurse: Just try to keep calm. Mine has had the ring for a month, and he told me the other night that he wouldn’t consider asking me to marry him for another YEAR. Your wait is going to be so much quicker, and it will be so much more awesome when he sits down next to you on the couch and asks you to marry him.
I agree, he’s waiting until you least expect it.
Post # 6
@kansas_nurse: I’m sorry hunny. I just do not understand some men…..WHY ON EARTH would he torture you like that and what in God’s name is he waiting for?????
Post # 7
@kansas_nurse: You know, I think this kind of behavior on a guy’s part is totally because he wants to surprise you, and he already has a specific idea of what he wants to do, and it’s not the same as what you think he’d do!
Don’t get disheartened. I know it is insanely frustrating and worrying, but if he talks about getting married all the time, the man is excited about it. He just has a particular plan that he’s waiting for. . . who knows when, but it really sounds to me like he has a plan.
Post # 8
@badabing88: Thanks…..it takes ALOT of effort when im home alone not to go nuts….i mean ALOT! but soo far ive been very good….
I dont think he has any inkling soo far that im sad he hasnt proposed yet….he knows im anxious…..so im just trying to stay positive and remind myself that this is once in a lifetime for us….so i cant spoil his fun…
awe maybe hes telling you that to throw you off….( i know its clechie and everyone says that….but you never know!)
Thanks….he told me that since he had no clue about jewlery and he wanted me to pick my own ring and have a say in it….sooo he gets the element of suprising me with the proposal and doing it when he chooses….he did promise he will have done it before june 1st….sooo i guesse i see his point….its just hard….lol
thank you im sure your right….it is hard to wait….but i think your right hes prolly planning something special…like he does with everything…..i think that is why i keep getting my hopes up….he usualy is all out for birthdays and anniversary…..so i just gotta keep my head up….thank goodness for the bee…
Post # 9
@kansas_nurse: find the ring! and one night during the night put it on your ring finger! and when he wakes up say ” omg I do!!!!….how did you manage to put that on without me waking up” he he 🙂 that will show him! or on second thoughts maybe just wait! i would absolutley go nuts knowing its in the house, I’d have the place torn apart and a metal detector out! i’m sure it will be worth it though as hes obviously going to wait and surprise you when you least expect it! Good luck 🙂
Post # 10
*hugs* He probably has something specific in mind that he’s planning! I doubt he just forgot the ring was there 😉 Waiting is hard, but you know that at some point it’s coming and he’s on the same page as you. I’m sure it’ll be a special proposal and worth the wait!
Post # 11
@Bettyboo1982: hahaha thats funy! but i would never have the balls to do that!! lmao….my i do have a few diamond candle rings that ive put on my left hand….and all i get is a mischevious smirk…and a “mmm a ring looks nice there…..yours will look better…”…..lol boys
thanks i know thats probably it….he likesto drop hints ALL the time….lol its just frustrating….esp to hear stories that someguys have the ring a day or 2 before they just cannot stans the wait and propose…..i know its comming….and its even harder now that im on the SIU pact…..