Post # 1
Of the dream designer!!!!!!!!!
And I don’t know how!!! Grrrr!!!!!!! I never dreamed of my wedding day or the perfect gown but I knew who I wanted to make it. Now that I started the process to give myself plenty of time, and get one thing checked off my list, I feel so conflicted, like I’m cheating on it. The selection in my area isn’t great and I’ve been putting off traveling to the nyc store but I think I may have to. I have been trying on other designers too and thought I’d have “that moment”. But I’m an idiot. I don’t feel that way about anything, ever. My top three dresses are 3 different designers, the 4th being what who I thought I wanted. But when I think about purchasing any of of the other ones it hurts.
Did anyone else have a similar experience? How should I approach this?
On the bright side, I have a few pairs of shoes lined up depending on the dress.
Post # 3
Um, are you me??? lol Especially with the shoes…
Honestly, if you don’t get what you want, you might really regret it down the road. Is it a budget issue?
Post # 4
No its not a budget issue, my mother is generously giving me $3,000 for a dress. It’s hard to figure out what exactly I want too. I have a silohuette in mind and thats about it. I think I have a nice figure so a lot of dresses look nice. I’m just starting to think I wont get that ah ha moment. I think we’ll be heading to the nyc store.
Post # 5
Who is your dream designer. I too had to fly to NYC due to a lack of dress shops. I did a bunch of research so if you are looking for something specific maybe I can help
Post # 6
Pronovias. I’m in Philadelphia and only 6 stores stocked them around (that includes their San Patrick and LaSposa line). But it was almost the same gowns over and over again. I even went to a few other stores trying to not be too picky but as nice as they are, I dont have that moment I thought Id have.
oh and techie, shoes are near and dear to me.
Post # 7
I’m not quite sure I understand the loyalty to a designer when you have other dresses that you prefer how they look on you. Sew in a label from your “top designer” into your top dress and play pretend
Post # 8
Haha if only it were that simple. I don’t understand my infatuation either. Maybe it be easier if I had a better selection. If only I had never went in that store in Barcelona…