(Closed) Trying to not be irritated…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

is there more to this story?  Maybe I’m picking you up worng but you seem a little threatened by this girl…

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@rangersbride:  not every bit of jealousy has to do with feeling threatened. Sometimes its just annoying. period.

 

@coffeegal85:  Ugh! how irritating! I have to work real hard to keep myself in check with things like this. I see girls doing underhanded things liket his and making little comments, even coming right up to Fiance and obviously being flirtatious right in front of me and I wanna run over and be like “back up jerk face!” or on the internet I want to respond with “stfu, go away!” lol. But I just let Fiance handle it and let him know if someone is really getting under my skin. sounds like your guy is already doing a great job πŸ™‚ Vent away! i totally get being irritated with things like that.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@stardustintheeyes:  I am aware of this, I said only how it read to me, hence my request for more information which the OP has kindly provided.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@stardustintheeyes:  YES!! Everything you just said! It’s just annoying and RUDE!! Some women seriously have ZERO respect.  

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@coffeegal85:  I wouldn’t be very happy with my Fiance hanging around with someone like this either, especially if she has loose morals and is overly flirtatious.  Have you spoken to your other half about this?  Saying that guys tend to be a bit blind to women like her.

I would just take comfort and reassurance from the fact that he’s with you, he’s marrying you and he loves you.  I’d try not to appear too jealous, I wouldn’t give her the attention or the time.  Try not to let her get to yu, I know it’s hard.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@coffeegal85:  ok that makes it worse if this girl is a known cheater. she obviously has no respect for her own relationship let alone anyone elses. I cant stand people like that! ugh!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would be irritated by this, too. My Fiance has a few female friends but they are all involved in our circle of friends, and are nice people. If they were cheaters, and trying to get FI’s atnetion, that would send red flags to me, and I would be very weary of them

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@coffeegal85:  what a mess she sounds, I can totally understand why you’re pissed off.  I think you’re dealing with it the right way.  People like that usually show their true colours and when she does your Fiance will realise what she’s like till then.  All you can do is what you’re doing at the moment – and come here to vent instead of getting on at him.  We’ll be happy to listen πŸ™‚

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper

@coffeegal85:  This woman sounds like a real peach. I’d totally be annoyed too! There’s a girl who works with my Darling Husband who has zero boundaries when it comes to other people’s significant others. We were actually just out with a group the other night where I knew she was going to be, and I warned him to be careful about her. I’m 6 months pregnant and told him I had no issue putting her in her place if she started to hit on him like she always does. Jerks.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Girls like this are so ANNOYING I can see how it bothers you and you wanting to look out for your Fiance. I also am thinking how the hell is this chick still married? If I were her hubs I would have left a long time ago especially if he caught her red handed several times like you said but maybe that’s just what I think.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@coffeegal85:  absolutely, as the saying goes “choose your battles”, she’s not worth your energy.  I’m pretty sure she’s deserved anything you’ve said in the past.  I hate women who attention seek by throwing themselves taken men.  It’s pathetic.  Good for you for taking the moral high ground πŸ™‚

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