(Closed) Trying to pick up the pieces

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

You deserve someone better since he has done this before.

You will find someone special who treats you well, give it time.  Smile

 

 

Post # 4
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778 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

What a jerk! (to put it nicely!)  Thank goodness his true colors showed before you were married to him!

I’m sorry to hear that he treated you so badly, especially about the things he said to you.  Karma will come back to haunt him, for sure.

Post # 5
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196 posts
Blushing bee

Don’t be a shoulder! Leave him in your dust! I hope you find someone who truly deserves you.

Post # 6
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251 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Let him go be with the 2X divorced-with 5 kids-single mom. Honestly if someone i was with even considered breaking up to be with someone like that I couldn’t get them out my front door quick enough.

Post # 7
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504 posts
Busy bee

I’m so sorry that he has treated you this way.

It is such a mean thing to say “anyone but you” to someone you suppossedly loved and if it were me I would wonder if he ever really did. I think you should move on and dont look back.

People who care about you do not treat you like that

Post # 8
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471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Please give yourself time to heal. There really isn’t any reason for you to continue contact with him and it will prolong you being able to get past the hurt and moving onto a good happy space where someone is waiting to meet someone just like you!

*Hugs

Post # 9
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843 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Leemarie:  

Ditto. I could never be with a guy like that. Op look at this as a huge blessing.

Post # 10
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2589 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Once you realize you deserve better, you’ll wonder why you ever invested yourself with this jackass.  Whatever it takes, heal and love yourself – and once you do that, you’ll be SO over this.

 

Post # 11
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1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

You know the saying…fool you once, shame on him.  Fool you twice, shame on you.  Don’t let him come back into your life.  He is unstable, manipulative, and generally confused.  99% of people won’t/can’t change for the better.  Time to move on and forget him!

Post # 12
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895 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Aw hun I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. You definitely deserve better. No person should ever be treated the way you have. You’re not a puppet, he can’t play you and then expect you to forgive and forget and for things to go back to the way they were when he doesn’t get his way with what he wanted. Don’t let this guy back in your life because things won’t change. Hopefully sometime soon you’ll find someone who will value what you bring to the table, who respects you and who loves you like crazy.

Post # 13
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1280 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

So sorry you are going through this, but as other bees suggessted I would definitely cut all ties with him, he doesn’t deserve you and you are better off w/o him….his loss and someone else’s gain….stay strong and remember to love yourself more, when you do then you will be able to move on and find the right man that will honor, cherish you and offer you the love you deserve.

 

Post # 14
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6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

This sucks terribly.  When you look back on this time in your life, you will be thankful you dodged this bullet….before you had a house, kids etc.

I’d probably seek out some counseling to help me process this.  (((HUGS)))

Post # 15
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2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@skullygirl:  cut this jerk from your life, how are you ever going to heal and move on if you keep contact with him and allow him to continuously hurt you. Do not wait for him to come crawling back, you deserve so much better then that.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I think youre being way too nice.  If someone did that to me i would never want to see them ever again let alone listen to their new love life stories.  This is a blessing in disguise, stay away from him!

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