(Closed) Trying to shake this feeling re showers/bachelorette

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 16
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3031 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Walnut Hill Bed & Breakfast

If your wedding is in August, you’d probably want to have your Bachlorette in July… unless you’re going away somewhere threre isn’t much reason to really start planning anything until June so I think your girls have at least 3-4 months before they need to really start thinking about it. They might also be planning a surprose. As for the shower, that’d typically be in June or July so they’d need to start planning that in April probably. It’s not too late… so I think you might be getting worried for nothing at this point. 

My mom and mother in law had to get things going for my shower…. they ended up paying for it while my girls provided the cupcakes, gift baskets, and games. I sent the invites myself and purchased the favors for my guests. We did all the crafty-stuff the night before. Other than picking a venue and sending out invites, there wasn’t that much to plan. 

Post # 17
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2696 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

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GypsieFlower:  I would ask my Maid/Matron of Honor if she is planning anything, then you’ll know.

As for shower, people say that your mom can’t throw it… but I didn’t know that before this site and I if people are so offended by your mom throwing it they don’t have to come.

I remember the stress and anxiety over these events… but it will all work out. Even if it doesn’t, at least you’re still getting married!

Post # 18
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I see nothing wrong with wanting/expecting a bachelorette and shower. But that is just me 

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