(Closed) Trying to wait patiently

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
Member
667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Welcome! Waiting is tough, I feel your pain! Your SO loves you and I seriously doubt he enjoys making you stressed, don’t think that way! My guess is he’s not in a rush because from your post it sounds like this will be his 3rd engagement if he is divorced and then was cheated on in another engagement? He wants to be 100% sure 3rd times the charm! Maybe try talking to him about when he sees the two of you getting married. That way he doesn’t have “give away” his ideal proposal timeline but you will have a better idea when it will happen. 

Post # 18
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41 posts
Newbee

Hi, I noticed you said you and your SO aren’t living together, and it’s just that you are anxious to get started on the next part of your lives together. I can soooo relate to that. My SO and I have been together almost a year now. We are not living together or sleeping together, so I get very impatient sometimes about wanting to start that part of our lives. My SO is divorced too, just like yours. Some days I get to feeling really impatient, but most days I just try not to think about, knowing full well that my SO is thinking about the future and probably doing some planning in his mind. And knowing that it will happen when it’s supposed to happen. 🙂

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