(Closed) TTC After Miscarriage

posted 9 years ago in Babies
Post # 46
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Buzzing bee

Congrats!

Post # 47
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Thanks ladies!!!

@mwitter – have you tested!?!?

 

Post # 48
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

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@chastenet:Oh that is so devastating! That would be an extremely hard thing to have to go through. My heart goes out to your friend!

Post # 49
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@winniewolf: No I actually just posted in the other thread that I am going to test tomorrow. 

I have crazy montgomery tubercles all over my nipples (sorry if TMI) I have never had anything like this before and I’m hoping since it’s a visible sign and not just something that I am searching for that it might be a really good validation. I am confident though more than ever so if I get a bfn tomorrow I’m not going to lose hope. I am feeling better mentally about the whole thing either way.

Post # 50
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’ve lurked on here since my wedding last summer, but haven’t logged in to post until now. I had a miscarriage in July at 10 weeks. We had been trying for about 4 months. It was a pretty horrible experience, made even worse by incompetent medical people at the clinic I went to. My new doctor’s (Love Her!) best guess was a blighted ovum, I bled for about 10 days and was done. We had only told a few family members I was pregnant, so getting back to reality was hard, seeing everybody else go about their normal life and knowing they didn’t have a clue what I was going through.

I would have started trying again immediately, but still haven’t gotten my period 8 weeks later! (the doctor’s says not to be concerned for a few more weeks) I’m such a planner, and I hate just waiting around for everything to get back to normal. I am still hopeful that this was a one time thing, but I know the (hopefully soon) next time around I’ll be scared to death of going through it again.

It is very nice to know that there are others (unfortunately) going through the same thing, and every time someone gets a BFP it makes me a little more hopeful 🙂

 

 

Post # 51
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

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@chastenet: that’s so sad. I think losing a pregnancy is traumatizing no matter how it happens. And I agree, it is so sad to think about what could have been.

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@Sarsa: That sucks you had to deal with bad medical professionals. A had surgery and longer cycles to begin with, so I guess that could explain the reeeallly long cycle, but I didn’t get my period until over 150 days after my surgery!! I was going crazy, but I feel like at least things are happening now. So I totally know how you feel. I chose to wait it out and not use any medication to induce a period, and just let it come on its own. I was at my breaking point when I finally got AF, but now I’m glad I don’t have any extra medicine in my system and maybe things will get back to normal.

Post # 52
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Busy bee

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@Sarsa: Ugh!  Sorry your cycle has been so long! My first one after m/c was 42 days…Hopefully AF will come soon for you so you can get back in the saddle 🙂 

Post # 53
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

is it just me or does anyone else feel like since their mc it’s so much more difficult to get pg and has the thought ever crossed your mind that something down there got messed up (not sure if this is possible)….I’m sad even just thinking about this but I don’t understand why it was so easy the first time around.

Post # 55
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

oh thank god I thought I was going crazy….I just don’t get it, before TTC it seemed like it was so easy to get pg, I got pg with my DD on the pill so I thought for sure this would be a piece of cake will no bc involved.  It is so frustrating, I also am a 28 day AFer according to OPK’s I am Oing when I should and I am timing everything right and still nothing, I am about 9DPO and I feel exactly the way I did last month and I’m trying not to stress but I am losing hope fast.  I hope we all get some good news soon!

Post # 57
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

My husband just send me this article. I thought it was really sweet of him and that you ladies might want to read it.

Light at the End of the Infertility

I won’t even slightly compare a chemical pregnancy to a miscarriage, but I read through your whole thread today and want to give all of us a little bit more hope.

Post # 58
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

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@JaneyD:How sweet of your husband!! And how sweet of you to pass it on. I just read the story and I’m sitting here in tears. How beautiful.

Post # 59
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@MrsGreenGrass:  Thank you so much for sharing this article it really helps to hear that we can hopefully go on to have healthy babies after a horible experience….and I am also so sorry to hear your news.

Post # 60
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Just wanted to check in and let you all know I’m thinking of you!

I read so many stories of women conceiving right away after a miscarriage and thought it would be the same for me.  Though it didn’t take THAT long for us, it seemed like forever.  I had to wait a full cycle after the m/c to try again and then got pregnant on cycle 3 TTC again (but, it was cycle 4 post-m/c).  We did everything right during the first 2 cycles, but nada.  I had some really blue days during those months and was convinced something was wrong with me.  I think it’s a completely natural feeling (partially b/c it’s like we want an explanation for why something went wrong the first time). 

Keep on truckin and try to stay positive!!!

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