(Closed) TTC After Miscarriage or Loss – Part 14

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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

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iamali :  Weird…..maybe you got pregnant again while you were waiting for AF? I guess only monitoring will tell you. I hope it’s that simple for you honey – FX!

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bosley2016 :  If AF showed then it’s pointless to do the testing now. I’m glad you finally got to turn the page on that cycle though, and I hope this cycle is a lot shorter and much more straight-forward. Sometimes we just need a reset, and AF is usually that. I didn’t watch Manchester By The Sea either – it looks boring AF. We did see Arrival (really good), and Nocturnal Animals (really really good) but haven’t done much more than read reviews on the rest. I noticed on the weekend that a bunch are now in my OnDemand list so we might watch a couple on the weekend. I really want to see La La Land, Loving, and Fences. I LOVE Viola Davis <3

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Helper bee

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MrsPuddingface :  Gotcha…yes, I’m hoping this cycle is better!  What day are you holding out to until you test? 

A lot of people said Manchester is just really sad and depressing.  So not sure why I wanted to watch it, but I did but didn’t go as planned with me sleeping instead. I’ve heard a lot of good things about Fences and Hidden Figures.  I want to watch both of those.  Eventually. 

 

Post # 123
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

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bosley2016 :  Hidden Figures seems really good too – I was a bit hesitant because it seemed a bit like one of those Disney-made true-story feel-good movies but if it’s a bit more serious (it probably is, to be Oscar-bait) I could be into it. 

I’ll probably try and hold out until 12DPO to test. We’ll see how my resolve holds up 😉 
How are you doing?

Post # 124
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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MrsPuddingface :  Thank you! It looks like I’m 4dpo today. We didn’t try this cycle, but I’m just happy to know that I O’d. ☺

Post # 125
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Welcome to one of the most supportive threads on the Bee! Here for anyone looking for support after a miscarriage or loss. 

Roll call: 34/33

Status (MC cycle/rest cycle/TTC cycle): MC Cycle (currently waiting for MMC to resolve).

MC History: I had a CP in October, and this is my first MC, I’m 12+3 today and baby stopped growing at 10+4, heartbeat couldn’t be detected on our scan yesterday morning.

Issues (if any): None that i know of.

Action Plan for next TTC cycle (ie Baby Aspirin, progesterone, etc): I’m not sure when we’ll TTC again, I hope I’ll be ready soon, but am just not sure right now.  We have a healthy 17 month old daughter, so I know I can carry a baby, just didn’t work this time for some reason.

Link to chart: I don’t chart.

What are your biggest challenges right now? Right at this moment it’s all the uncertainty.  Scan yesterday showed baby at 10+4 and they couldn’t detect the heartbeat.  That said, they can’t be 100% sure there isn’t a heartbeat, so  I’m feeling pretty confident that things won’t go my way here.  Not knowing is so hard right now.

Current coping strategies/favorite inspirational quotes: Honestly, just coping by sitting at work pretending to be effective, and hoping I get some answers soon.

Just for fun: Any New Year resolutions?

Read more: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/ttc-after-miscarriage-or-loss-part-14/#ixzz4aD2MFB72

Post # 126
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

 Well, it looks like I did ovulate. I’m pregnant again, 3 weeks after my miscarriage. I hope this baby sticks! I’m just so nervous!

Post # 127
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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almondsyrup :  Congratulations! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months! 

Post # 128
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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almondsyrup :  hooray! I did the same. I’m currently 10dpo and on my third day of positive tests. Fx for both of us <3

Post # 129
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2016

almondsyrup, isthisreal – awesome news, congrats!

Post # 130
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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almondsyrup :  what day are you on? If you want someone to worry with let me know, haha! I am going to try to not stress about another loss with this one… but it’s hard. I’m just scared it’s too good to be true.  Didn’t get my BFP with my last two pregnancies until 11-12dpo so naturally I’m afraid it could be a cp this time. 

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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

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isthisreal :  I’m currently 13dpo, and had another, darker positive this morning! I’d be happy to worry with you, just send me a PM and we can exchange facebook or whatsapp or something! I went over to my OBGYN this morning and made an appointment for next wednesday for a first ultrasound. It made me so nervous. Ugh, I’m just hoping our babies stick around this time!

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sheclicksherheels :  Thanks!!!

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honeysoft :  Thanks so much!

Post # 132
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

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bjenmomma :  I’m so sorry for your loss! XO

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almondsyrup :  Congratulations lovey! Happy and healthy 9 months to you and little bean! XO

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isthisreal :  It there something in the water? 😉 Congratulations hon!! FX for a long and boring pregnancy and healthy babe XOX

Post # 133
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

*Cross-posted from Charters thread*

 

I’ve been testing for 3 days now and I’m pregnant. I know it’s not where you start but how you progress, but I’m a little worried there’s not much line progression in my tests. Trying not to worry, trying not to be anxious, but failing at both. I know it’s still early.  Today I’m pregnant…lather, rinse, repeat. 

Top pic is top – 12DPO, middle – 11DPO, bottom – 10DPO. 

 

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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

 

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MrsPuddingface :  I can see the progression on the FRERS! I wouldn’t worry about the wandfos. That being said, I’m also having issues accepting my progression. Whenever you feel ready to join the fb group, let me know. I’ve joined but not roll called, just because I’m terrified of miscarrying again, but I like to read what the other ladies post.

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Helper bee

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MrsPuddingface :  Congrats!!  This is so exciting!  Like Almondsyrup said, I wouln’t worry about the wondofo’s.  You can very much see the darker line on the FRER.  You are still very early in the testing so I’m sure the lines will progress.  You’re pregnant, be happy! I hope this is your sticky bean and you have a healthy and happy 9 months!

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