Post # 1
Darling Husband and I are TTC, and want to get there ASAP. AF just left (finally), and I have myself generally charted from those dates. Everything should be fine, but there’s an itty bitty problem.
We have a bit of a room mate right now. She’s a friend who is having a really hard time at home, and needed a better environment for a while. Darling Husband and I agreed, since we’re both worried about her and want her to feel better. We live in a tiny 1 bedroom apartment, so she’s sleeping on the couch.
Our walls are thin, and like I said, it’s a small place. I’m a bit worried about BD’ing! I don’t want her to hear us and be freaked out, but I also don’t want to miss out on TTC. What do you guys think?
Post # 3
@GooteyBootey: I wouldn’t let it stop you. There have got to be times where she is out running errands. Plus, she can’t expect you two to stop BDing just because she’s staying with you guys!
Other options include the shower– the running water will muffle any sounds! =)
Post # 4
@GooteyBootey: Are you never going to have sex while she’s staying there??? That’d just be silly!!!! I would do it anyway, it’s your house…if she doesn’t like it she’ll find somewhere else to go.
Post # 5
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We live with my fiances sister and we just turn on a loud fan!
Post # 6
@GooteyBootey: Fans and/or white noise machines in both rooms, lol. I use white noise machines to drown out all the babble from the salon while I’m in my esthetics room doing a facial. It works wonders.
Post # 7
Just go for it! But I will warn you, my BFF is currently living in our house and I love having her around, but one of my early pregnancy symptoms is trouble sleeping and she wakes me up all night long! That with my irritability right now is not a pretty situation!
Post # 8
Thanks for all the advice, ladies! I just hope Darling Husband doesn’t get shy or something XD
Post # 9
We had a friend over after dinner and drinks at the start of my fertile window. I just told my hubby to come into the bedroom for a quickie. His friend was in front of the TV playing a video game. We joked about making him wear the headphones. Granted his friend knows we are TTC. So it was more of a funny joke than anything. Quick and quiet was the plan! ;p
Post # 10
I wouldn’t let it stop my husband and I from getting busy, lol. Like PP’s stated, turn on a fan, do it in the shower, when she’s out running errands, or bump some music! What happens when you have kids? I think that you can be courteous (ie not screaming and moaning) and still get busy. Ultimately, you can’t put your sex life on hold to accommodate others! Have fun! 🙂