(Closed) TTC and your DH/FI/SO

posted 7 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

bump?  Darling Husband and I have been talking about this and are starting T-5 months, and I’m curious!  Thanks bees!

Post # 4
2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Darling Husband is not really all that into it… I let him know when Im about to O… we have a pretty healthy sex life so it just a normal night of BDing ot us… however he did say the other day how he can;t wait til we have a little baby… I love him so much!

ETA: he is really supportive … we are onlyh on cycle 2 but i have been getting really discouraged and he keeps telling me “it WILL happen baby.. be patient”. As far as vitamins.. he won’t take any but he will take royal jelly because it tastes good lol

Post # 5
5107 posts
Bee Keeper

My husband doesn’t really care either. He is so excited to start a family, but other than that, he’s not really that into it. I’m a charter/OPK user, so I tell him when the most important days to BD are, but we BD when we can (he’s gone a lot in the summer) and hope for the best.

He takes vitamins when I remind him, but doesn’t actively take them. He has cut back on chewing tobacco and rarely drinks now, gets plenty of exercise, etc.

He doesn’t understand charting so he is pretty disinterested in that. He’s not against it, but he’s just like, whatever, I guess. Haha

Post # 6
3367 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

My husband seems amused by how immersed I am in the whole process.  I read Taking Charge of Your Fertility like it held the answers to the universe and I’ve been talking ovulation so much that my 11 yr old isn’t even embarrassed anymore.  The way I see it, he’s spent so much of our relationship talking computers and cars… it’s my turn now!  lol 

I haven’t had to ask him to change his habits, so that helps him stay patient, I’m sure.  He’s excited to have it happen… and he’s all for trying.  He has gone to his dr and he’s watching what he eats.  Nothing extreme.  He pays no attention to my charting. 

We’re having fun with it!

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