TTC before vacation to Hawaii?

posted 4 months ago in TTC
Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

hunting_bride :  same on the frequent urination! My goodness I was going to the bathroom 5 to 6 times in 2 hours and couldn’t sleep through the night. Pregnancy is NUTS. Luckily it has let up for me and I can finally sleep through the night again without urinating twice before morning. 

Post # 17
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

It’s so hard to say – everyone is different. During my first trimester, I had almost zero nausea, just occasionally suddenly felt like I was dying if I got too hungry. Week 14-17 I had a few first thing in the morning bursts of nausea and threw up, but otherwise was good. I was exhausted the first two trimesters, but I could still have had a good time in a trip. My friend actually lived this – Hawaii from 11-13 ish weeks, and she was super sick basically the whole 9 months, including during the trip, but she still had a good time. Maybe skip a month if it would put you at 9-10 weeks during your trip since that’s often the peak/worst of sickness for people? But if you were 11-12 weeks you might be feeling better/6-7 not feeling sick yet…

Post # 18
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2018

We went to Hawaii in my second trimester. I was still throwing up on the regular – just book your seat in advance in the aisle, and let the flight attendants know that you are pregnant. Was puking on the plane in turbulence fun? No, but we made it and it was fine. We wanted a beach vacation and Hawaii was the only zika-free place we could find. 

I say go, and just plan on a lower-key holiday than you might otherwise take. All restaurants have mocktails, and neither snorkel tour company we went with had a problem with me being pregnant. We did one with a big company and one with a very small one, both on Maui. We still did some hikes, although we took them slower, and went up Haleakala. You’re pregnant, not dying, so live as much as you can before your little one arrives! 

Post # 19
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Much like every said, every pregnancy/person is different. I’m currently 27 weeks and going to Hawaii would’ve been fine (no nausea/extreme tiredness). Maybe it’s genetic how pregnancy affects you? That’s probably incorrect, but I’m just pondering out loud because my grandma, mom and 3 sisters all have had easy going pregnancies. Actually, I just looked it up and a quick Google scan shows some articles saying it’s hereditary. 

ETA: disclaimer – not that that makes my wild statement correct lol

Post # 20
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I say go for it! I found out I was pregnant (we were trying) right before we left to go hike the Inca Trail in Peru. I was 8 weeks when we left. My midwife did an early ultrasound  and gave me the okay to eat civeche and hike the 28 mile trail. I was lucky and flew up the mountain like it was nothing. The guide was also 8 weeks pregnant and dying even though she had done it so many times before. So I guess it could go either way. 

With my second, I got pregnant on our trip to Europe. If I were you, I’d keep trying! Morning sickness on the beach is better than morning sickness at work… I would imagine. I got lucky and didn’t have it with either. Good luck either way! 

Post # 21
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Busy bee

ananoabee55 :  I had morning sickness until 16 weeks but it was manageable and the exhaustion was REAL as in I went to bed at 7 throughout the whole first trimester. I definitely would’ve enjoyed a Hawaii trip though, skip any dangerous activities but sightseeing and laying on the beach sound wonderful. Apply sunblock and try to stay in the shade to avoid dark spots. Add for the plane, get up and walk around because prolonged sitting is a no no but if your doctor says ok then enjoy yourself!

Post # 22
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

I traveled fairly extensively though all three of my pregnancies (mostly for work) until about 35 weeks. My OB was only concerned about my flying late in my pregnancy and as others mentioned, encouraged me to walk around on long flights or wear some compression hose.  As others mentioned, I too was really sick until about 16 weeks and flying long cross country trips was as bit of a challenge (I did it- but I felt miserable), so there’s that to consider.  Otherwise, I would t alter your plans. You never know how long it will take to conceive, and honestly, first trimester is probably the best time to travel (before you get uncomfortable) so long as you’re not totally ill. Good luck! Hawaii sounds fabulous! 

Post # 23
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Blushing bee

ananoabee55 :  we had a trip planned when I was about 4 weeks pregnant (just found out). It was about a 4 hour flight away and a city location. We ended up coming home early after 2 days because I was too unwell to enjoy it and didn’t have the energy for sightseeing. I went through fertility treatment and had a mild-moderate cause of OHSS though, so it made my symptoms more extreme. I’m not upset about it though because getting a positive test > any vacation. 

Post # 25
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Bumble Beekeeper

Is it doable? Yes…unless you have HG or something. Is it going to be enjoyable? That’s harder to say. I traveled to the Middle East (14 hrs of flight time) in my first trimester to visit family, and it was manageable, but I didn’t have a great time cause of morning sickness. 

Post # 26
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I was in the early stages of pregnancy when we was on holiday in Sardinia and I was miserable the whole time because I was so sick. 

Honestly I would wait for the trip to pass and then TTC and enjoy a nice holiday sans pregnancy 

Post # 27
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

ananoabee55 :  Yes, I traveled in the first trimester.  Felt like shit most of the time- especially if you are over 6weeks.  If you are under 6 weeks you might be fine.  Would not recommend in general for a relaxing vacation.  I would just wait and TTC after the trip.  It’s fine if it’s a cheap or short trip or work trip but I wouldn’t want to spend thousands to be exhausted and dry heaving at the smells.  Mostly exhaustion/fatigue and any morning sickness or nausea.  You’d be better off going around 20-24 weeks if you’re pregnant.

Even the start of the second trimester you can have morning sickness.  I had MS until 12 weeks and 17 weeks.  The best you’re gonna feel is probably 20-24 weeks after MS has mostly passed and you’re not too big.

Post # 28
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

This thread is super helpful to me right now too! After a very long medication taper process I am finally medically safe to TTC and it’s ALL I CAN THINK ABOUT, but Darling Husband and I planned a road trip in the end of August for our 5 year wedding anniversary and I am so afraid to drive 25 hours in early pregnancy if we got lucky. But it’s also SO hard to wait anymore. All these answers make me think it’s probably wise to wait though… Good luck to you guys in your decison and in trying!! 

Post # 29
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

We’re in Hawaii right now for our honeymoon and I can’t imagine enjoying myself as much if I was pregnant!

Post # 30
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Honestly there is just no way of knowing until you are actually pregnant, everyone responds to the hormones differently. I know plenty of people who were sick as a dog and couldn’t function, while others were fine. I had some slight nausea the first few weeks but I was never ill or throwing up. Mostly I was tired and had to take a nap at 3pm everyday..haha.

Honestly I would think a beach vacation would be fine, unless you’re wanting to go do extreme sports. You obviously aren’t going to be scuba diving while pregnant. I’ll be honest though, at 7-8 weeks I’d still go on a small hike or even zipline. I’d just sign the wavers. With ziplining you’re harnessed in and at no point did I ever feel like it would have done any harm had I been pregnant. 

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