(Closed) TTC + BM Duties in Nov 2018

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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danakxox :  Live your life by your own calendar. Waiting on someone else’s timeline to plan to conceive is just silly. What if your second best friend plans a wedding for 6 months later?

Wait until she asks you to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man, or you get the invitation and make the decision about travel at that time. If she asks you to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man, and you are pregnant, tell her. if you are still trying, tell her that.If you are too far along in your pregnancy or have a newborn, you miss the wedding. Her life will go on.

 

Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

I think if you’re close, you could just talk to her. Explain you’re so excited for her and you’d love to, but your attention might be elsewhere. I’m a low maintenance bride so I don’t require much and don’t care much, but others might be more needy or easily upset about it. You know your friend most, and I think communicating with her would be just fine. 😌 sending baby dust your way! 

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