(Closed) TTC? Doubtful.

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Ok well… I’d say the first step to a peaceful TTC experience is to focus on getting on the same page as your husband and stop devoting so much negative energy to whatever it is your sister is doing.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I know it’s frustrating but ignore you SIL. You have no control over what she does or the decisions she makes for her family. You will be exhausted if you focus your energy on her.

But you really need to talk to Darling Husband because the two of you need to be on the same page. Sit him down and have a serious conversation. Hope it goes well.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

@Kkaattii- I spent years being so mad at some of the women around me who take advantage of the system and have these kids and get to stay at home with them. It took up so much energy and doesn’t solve any of my issues if I focus on them. Moving sounds like a good idea. Seperate yourself and try to focus on your own decisions.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Maybe it would help to get Darling Husband to agree to a specific timeline. That’s what we did– we picked a date to start TTC (July 17th!). It has helped Darling Husband feel less pressure while giving me a timeline to focus on and look forward to. Good luck!

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