- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
I went off the pill last month, had my first period without the pill, now expecting second. Weirdly, I’m not thinking about TTC much at all. I have SO many other things to think about (work’s super busy, we’re just planning our wedding now etc). I honestly don’t think it’ll happen anytime soon. BUT FH has apparently being counting the number of times we (ahem) “attempt” :s The other day he informed me that it had been 4 times and it should be a done deal by now! :s :s :s I found this a bit strange. He has a child from his previous marriage, and that happened basically the first month of TTC, so now he has this idea that pregnancy will happen ASAP. I think he might be sadly disappointed, I pointed out that we are older (he’s 40, me, 33) and that was nearly 10 years ago he conceived his child!
How to soften the blow every time Aunt Flo pays me a visit each month? (as I expect this to happen for awhile before we conceive….or maybe never, since I have endometriosis, it may not happen at all!) My family doc said to pay her a visit if nothing after 6 months…which I suspect we may be doing 🙁