(Closed) ttc – my story (possibly upsetting and long)

posted 9 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
7286 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Thank you for sharing your story…it will resonate with more women than you will ever know!

I have never lived through what you have so I can’t make that decsiison but it does sound like you have a wonderful support system! Keep in communicaiton and take it one day at a time!


Post # 5
681 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I cannot imagine what you’ve been through, as I’m not quite at that point of life yet (TTC, need to get married first!)  I can only speculate what I would do, but I think when you feel up to it you should try seeing the doctor…  I would be haunted not knowing, but at least if you know the situation you can (if you choose) to start alternative planning…  Hopefully you will not have to, but you don’t want to look back later down the road and wish you had gone and it be too late (and potentially have nothing wrong)  I wish you the best and please keep us updated! <3

Post # 7
715 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Thank you for sharing your story with us. I can not imagine what you have gone through. I’m very sorry things have gone that way. 

While I understand your doctors intention to take your depression serious I find it difficult to agree with his decision not to start any fertility testings. You guys have been trying for 4 years. Have you considered finding a new doctor? Maybe a new start with a fresh set of eyes could help you to overcome your fear to finding out what is going on. Someone that doesn’t automatically assume your depression is responsible that you are not getting pregnant. 

I’ve gone through fertility testings myself and I can tell you I cried many days and nights. It was hard to hear that our chances to conceive are very very small. It wasn’t easy to hear that my body is the problem. But having overcome that struggle I find myself in a much better place now.  

Maybe your issue can be treated very, very easily. Maybe you will need help to conceive once again. But there are a lot of options out there. The point where you are right now is not the end. 

Good luck to you!


Post # 8
824 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

I just want to send you a huge ((hug)). Thank you for sharing your story. I can not even begin to imagine what you and your family have gone through. I hope you get answers soon. Again ((hug)). 

Post # 10
282 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

You are so brave and strong. I’m glad you have your son and Fiance. I hope that you are blessed with another child, too – sounds like you are a fantastic mom. My thoughts are with you!

Post # 11
2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

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@stokieGal:  Holy cow. The hospital should not have allowed you to leave without a follow up appointment the very next day.Im sorry you went through this. Time only goes so far in healing a memory like that. You sound like a strong woman though. Go to your gp and insist on fertility tests and a referral to a psychologist. Your gp CANNOT deny you any of these things, he can only advise against it. My concern is that if you leave it longer, it will become harder for you to deal with emotionally. Good luck and keep posting xx

Post # 12
501 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

i am so sorry to hear of your loss. that is heart wrenching. best wishes to you as you figure out how to move forward.

Post # 13
3367 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

You sound incredibly strong and quite brave through a very heartbreaking experience.  I hope the best for you and your family.  Please let us know how you are as you continue through this difficult time.


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