(Closed) TTC – Not a single gram of disappointment left to give. :-(

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 1998

It must be so hard For you. 

We spend so much time trying to not get pregnant and then when we want to we can’t.  It’s hard to watch so many other people get pregnant so easily. 

Dont give up 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 1998

@goldie.girl:  I’d feel the same way.  Your journey is only about to begin their are so many things that can be done to help you.  Goodluck and I wish you all the best.

Sending baby dust your way:)

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I’ve heard that charting works for a lot of coules so I’m crossing my fingers for you

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I can relate. We are in our 21st cycle of TTC. I have gone through a gamett of emotions, from sad to angry, from positivity and hopefulness to fained indifference but it is always the same, it HURTS every month when AF shows up. Even this evening after BDing I asked Darling Husband “why do we even bother it just doesn’t work for us”. He tries to remind me that it takes longer for some couples but I feel like we’ve put in our time. In our time of TTC I have watched people get pregnant in their first month of “trying”, carry their babies to term, deliver and now those babies are having Birthdays. 

We have had long waits in getting someone to help us (testing wise) and finally have an RE appointment in April. I feel like the doctors wasted my time and I would be a mother now if they had listened and helped me when we requested it after 7 months.

I am glad to hear your Darling Husband is supportive. I hope your positivity returns and that you don’t give up hope. One day you will be a mother though it may not happen in the timeline or way you invisioned. When your time comes I hope it is magical and all the painful moments of TTC are a distant memory. Good luck to you!!!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Please feel free to join us on the 1+ Board – it is a great group of very supportive ladies!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@goldie.girl:  So sorry you’re going through that. I know it’s hard, and difficult to talk to anyone about, aside from us ‘anonymous Bees.’

The few times I’ve bothered with a test always came out with a BFN, and sometimes there’s a sting with it, feeling like maybe I’m not capable of becoming pregnant. If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me. *Hugs*

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@goldie.girl:  Anytime lady! As long time TTC’ers we seem to take turns having our ups and downs therefore take turns boosting each other when we are down. That is what is so great about the Bees.

The 1+ board is for those trying to conceive for over a year, here’s the link

1+ year TTC! Part V.

Post # 14
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Newbee

I feel like, I’m never gonna be pregnant. I wouldn’t say I’m depressed about this, but it gets me down when I do stop and think about it. My Darling Husband is supportive, but I know he is just as disappointed each month, he just doesn’t know what to say.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

I had some fertility issues of my own and once I saw a specialist and started looking into what could be wrong I just felt so much more at peace and in control. For me, knowledge and having a professional behind us made a huge difference. I hope that you find that to be the case. Best of luck to you!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I can only partially relate, I haven’t been trying for too long, but each BFN is a giant slap in the face. We did EVERYTHING right! We happily rearraging all of our habits and lives to work toward a baby. And DAMN IT if all that means precisely sh*t each month when AF arrives. -Rant Over-

You are obviously an amazing woman and your marriage is incredibly strong. I hope that with your new insurance you can investigate what is going on and it is easy to overcome.

Sending baby dust your way!

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