MemberIm sooooo happy you posted this question as i’m in the same situation. I’m thinking that i wont say anything because i dont want to jinx anything. If closer to the wedding the dress looks horrible (because I am G-d willing, pregnant) I will talk to the bride
MemberSometimes getting pregnant can take a lot longer than you think so don’t borrow trouble! EBay has lots of David’s Bridal dresses if say you do get pregnant and need a bigger size. Keep in mind you won’t show a bump sometimes for about 4 months.
Memberdoubtingdebbieah: Good idea. I didn’t tell her we were trying, but that if my hubs was wanting to I wouldn’t say no 😉 Although, clearly, he is on board.
pachamama: Totally. I don’t have to order until October so hopefully I’ll know by then. I think if we don’t get pregnant by then we will wait another year…I don’t really know though.
MemberLilaPenelope: I think that’s a fine compromise. When I was getting married, I really appreciated that two of my bridesmaids let me know that they were trying and then when their due date was, just for logistical planning purposes. I knew they weren’t really “public” about either at the time they told me and so I kept it to myself and didn’t bring it up with them, unless they did. But it helped me plan things.
MemberLilaPenelope: Another thing just to throw in the mix, when you do order your dress. Order it online, ti turn around time was a week a most for my Bridesmaid or Best Man who ordered hers online vs. the other girls 8 weeks or more to get theirs!
MemberLilaPenelope: My bridesmaids got their dresses from David’s (ordered online), and they had the dresses in hand a little over a week from ordering! It’s possible less common styles/colors might take longer, but it could be that fast. I think David’s official timframe to order bridesmaid dresses is 6-8 weeks.
MemberI would wait until I was pregnant then tell her right away, if you get pregnant right away, you’ll be 9 months pregnant when she gets married.
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