(Closed) TTC soon and I cant help but feel so much fear…

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 4
485 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

It’s because you’re old enough now to know everything that can happen!

You’re also old enough to see the impact you and the world can have on your kids, so you feel a deeper sense of personal responsibility for *bringing* a child into this world.

Don’t focus on any of that.  Just close your eyes and remember what it feels like when they curl up against you and press their little face into the side of your neck!

Post # 6
1406 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

One of my dear friends is in the same situation as you.  She has 2 boys, 17 & 18 though by 2 different guys.  She was married twice before to some real losers.  She met her Darling Husband and he’s older (40s) and doesn’t have kids.  She just found out she has to have a hysterectomy and has accepted that they will adopt.  I also just found out she’s a grandma by her oldest son. 

She’s just excited to finally be in the right relationship with a wonderful, religious man and they WILL have kids.  She’s told me her fears about having them when the nest is pretty much empty but it’s something they want together so it doesn’t matter.  I say go for it!

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