Twin Beds for a Married Couple a la Lucy and Ricky?

posted 2 years ago in Beehive
Post # 2
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Sugar bee

Ask if the beds could be pushed together to make a king. 

If not, then enjoy having my blankets for the entire night on my own twin, and be happy I wasn’t sleeping on the floor. 

Post # 3
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Busy bee

I would be grateful to have a place to stay where someone else is welcoming us into their home, and not complain or think about it again.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper

I wouldn’t care at all.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

I have stayed in a guest room at an aunt’s house as a married woman who slept in one twin bed while my husband slept in the other. What’s the big deal? 

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

I would not care. I don’t need to sleep in the same bed as my husband every single night. If it’s so important to sleep in the same bed you could always pay for a hotel.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California

I think I would actually like having the bed and blankets to myself for the short stay haha. Honestly, I would just be grateful that you’re allowing us to stay with you and in mostly private quarters.

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper

Overjoyed :  I would enjoy having my own space, but if it’s a deal breaker get a hotel. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: City, State

Considering I’m getting a free place to stay for the week, I wouldn’t complain.

Post # 11
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Helper bee

I think I’d be grateful of their hospitality!! 

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I agree with the PP about being grateful and not complaining. Plus, my Darling Husband sleeps like a starfish and steals the blankets so at least I know I wouldn’t have to fight for space and blankets 😉

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019 - Chateau Lake Louise

Overjoyed :  I’D  be ovverjoyed (pun intended) Personally, I really prefer to sleep alone. So much so that I will often go down the hall and sleep in our guest room after FH has fallen asleep. 

I’m a super light and restless sleeper, and I don’t like anyone touching me while I’m resting. So, I’m all about separate beds. If I could have convinced FH to go along with always sleeping separately, I would have been delighted. As it stands, our current setup works out pretty well. 

I know some people who sleep better with their partner, and for those people I can see how twin beds might be a disappointment. But, I assume it’s only because those are the accomodations they have. I wouldn’t feel affonted, but if I felt strongly about sharing a bed, I might look for a hotel or airbnb instead.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

If a friend was graciously hosting me and my partner I would not care if it was two single beds. 

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

I wouldn’t care at all. I stayed in an AirBnB with my family over Christmas and our room had a full and a twin in it. After the second night I transferred myself to the twin because it was nice and smooshy and the full had the hardest memory foam I’ve ever slept on in my life. So my husband and our dog got to share the full for a few nights.

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