(Closed) Twin Evil Future Sisters In Law

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
4524 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@ales24568:  I would have advised you NOT to have confronted her or have a sit down with her, as family “interventions” rarely go well, *especially* if you’re the “outsider” in the scenario.


Based on what I can tell, she is older than you.  She very well could be jealous of a few things:

-your relationship with her brother

-you being younger than her and getting engaged

-your relationship with her parents/nieces/nephews


Especially with the comment regarding the makeup, it sounds like textbook jealousy. That being said, I would not expect my fiance to pick sides: you may not like the outcome.  If it were me (and I deal with ‘jealous’-esque ladies alot), I would simply ignore them.  Don’t even kill them with kindness, just flat out be civil when you have to interact with them. Engaging them anymore will only add fuel to the fire. If you stay out of it and they continue this crusade against you, it will be very obvious to everyone (including your in-laws) who the problem REALLY is.

Post # 4
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I assume you already have talked to your fiance about this…what does he say? I would suggest cutting off contact with the sisters. There is no reason you need to talk to them and they are only creating stress in your life. Don’t talk to them any more. If anything needs done regarding his family, he should do it. Try and relax and don’t let them being immature get to you. They are jealous and hateful.

Post # 5
135 posts
Blushing bee

@ales24568:  Sounds like it’s time for your Fiance to man up and have a serious come to Jesus talk with the twins. 

You are never going to win this war because the twins will always support each other and your Future In-Laws will support their children.  I’m am sure this is not the first time your Fiance has witnessed jealous rearing it’s ugly head with the twins.  They are his sisters and you are his fiance, time for him to let everyone in the family know that he is marrying you and that you are and will be an important part of his life and they need to get their act together. 

And you my dear should refrain from posting anything on FB related to the twins and do not reply to their posts.  I swear to God FB is the devil and cause of soooo many ridiculous petty arguments.

Post # 6
1497 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Avoid seeing them.

Block them from FB.

Don’t invite them to your wedding.

No one should be able to cause you this much stress. Just cut them out of your life and be done with them.


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