Twisting our Friendship History for MLM Promotion – RANT

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2021

At this point the only thing you can do is view her life as entertainment and laugh it off. 

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

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jayquellen :  

How did you see the post? I would either unfriend her or unfollow her. There’s no chance of being friends again, at least not at the moment so unfollow unfriend.

Also, ask people to stop telling you what she’s saying. Trust me, I KNOW how badly you want to know what someone is saying behind your back, especially if it’s lies. I know how hurtful and frustrating it is, and I know what it’s like to want to shout from the rooftops about the lies. It doesn’t do anything but hurt you when you see the lies. You can’t change what she’s doing so you are going to have to try to cut these posts out of your life.

If you can stop looking and have people stop telling you what she’s saying, you will be much happier.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: Canada

Anyone who sees her twitter and her non-sensical rant can see she’s not right in the head and is a crazy.  I wouldn’t worry about it.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Why do you know so much about her social media posts? Just block her and move on with your life.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

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jayquellen :  

In my experience, people eventually come around and see the lies.

However, I doubt her social media followers really care about the people who did her wrong 🙄🙄 so I wouldn’t worry about that.

Your friends know who you are and try to keep that in mind whenever you start getting frustrated

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

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jayquellen :  no one who knows you should believe her, if they do, I question their judgment. She’s ranting on social media like she’s in junior high. Anyone with any sense can see through that.

ignore her and tell anyone who shares her rants with you that you have chosen to ignore her lies and hope they can as well. Frankly I wouldn’t be friends with people who continued to try to stir the pot after I laid down the boundary. It’s just juvenile. 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

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jayquellen :  honestly? who cares. MLMs are a scam, and more likely than not she’s just going to lose a bunch of money in it. as long as your name isn’t actually tagged in her post – then so what. she can say whatever she wants. people don’t like people who just bitch about others; people will see through it. if you want “the past to be the past” then stop following her and just block her on social media.

Post # 11
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Busy bee

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jayquellen :  Look, I get that she screwed you guys over and that losing a friend sucks, but honestly the fact that you are stressing over this is 1) petty and 2) doing yourself a disservice—stress is bad for you and this situation is not worth it.

Her rant(s) will sound extremely petty and nonsensical to anyone. I don’t think the friend who is trying to get you involved in this drama has your best interests at heart.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper

Holy run-on sentence Batman! I’m laughing my ass off at “they threw blame at me”. 

I promise, no one with a brain is going to take her seriously after that little screed.

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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jayquellen :  I wouldn’t worry. Her starting a MLM business will mean she alienates her last few existing friends. All her bitching will be put out to an audience empty of people to listen. Nothing makes friends and acquaintance’s scatter to the far ends of the earth than an MLM sales pitch!!! 😜

Seriously, though just ignore her. People always end up seeing people for who they are. They may not say but they do see and if she’s doing this wirh you guys she will do this with other people in her life because she doesn’t know better. People like this always end up on the nose. Don’t stress about it. If you feel you’ve done nothing wrong don’t dwell on her behaviour. 

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Well, if you are a cow like me, the good news is that chances are she will sink all her $ and $$ that she doesn’t have into this MLM bulshit, end up dead broke, with no friends or family and Karma will kick her ass.

You haven’t done anything wrong, let her be the idiot she is, the universe will work it out. 

 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

I don’t judge people being bad mouthed on social media, I judge people who do the bad mouthing. I also judge / stay away from people who participate in pyramid schemes. 

Agree with others to cut out all updates about this person and also stop worrying about others opinions, because people who you care about and care about you aren’t going to believe these posts, while people who do buy into the drama are probably people you wouldn’t want to associate with anyway, so it works out well for you either way.

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