(Closed) Two bands

posted 8 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Lucky girl!! I’m getting two wedding bands too, but we haven’t purchased them yet.

If we did, I would be sneaking at least one on too πŸ™‚

 

In any case, I actually think that you should not wear one yet.  When you are only engaged, you are supposed to wear only your engagement ring.  Engagement is a special time that only happens once.  You will have the rest of your life to wear both and proudly show that you are a married woman.  Even if you only wear one and save one for the ceremony, it will still look like you are married. 

 

I must confess that when I am away from my Fiance (running errands or what not), I move my eternity ring that I wear on my right hand and put it next to my engagement ring for an hour or so just to look and it and imagine that it would be my two wedding bands, so I totally get where you are coming from.

 

Post # 4
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873 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Well, no one is saying you can’t wear one – but I agree with louboutin – this is this short time in your life where you are not exactly single but not yet married.  Enjoy your e-ring and being an engaged woman, and leave your wedding rings (or at least publically showing them off), for the next big transition in your life! πŸ™‚

Post # 5
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1956 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

Heehee, one of my bands came in over the holidays and I’ve been wearing it around the house when Mr TM isn’t home! I even wore it out (on the right hand) to show some friends…I’m bad…Personally, I don’t think it matters much but since anticipation is half the fun, I say wait for the wedding to wear ’em!

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I totally wore mine when Darling Husband wasn’t around, LOL. I say enjoy wearing JUST the e-ring for now. You’re not married yet! I didn’t officially wear mine until the wedding.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yay for two-band brides!!  I can’t wait until we get mine!  But, I don’t think I’ll wear any….one of the reasons I’m getting two bands is b/c I’m a freak for symmetry (and my e-ring is also more of a band, so it looked better), and I think only having ONE band would bug me!!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I just want to go ahead and get my two bands to put them on my finger so i can just see what it will look like! They are still at the store on layaway! πŸ™‚

Post # 9
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2000 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I’m not one to normally believe in bad luck, but I def. won’t be wearing one of my wedding bands until I get married. This is a symbol that you’re married, and you’re not yet. It’s totally up to you – but I would wait, because this is part of the “new” things that get to happen when you get married. I’ll be having 2 wedding bands too & I can’t wait to put them both on!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

i have a halo ring so i got two contoured diamond bands and i looooove it! I am soldering one of my bands to the ering after the wedding, but before the wedding, he is just going to put one on and then wehn i go to put my ering on i will also put on the other band before the reception

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I have two bands but I’ll be soldering them all together so I don’t have this issue (YAY 2 BAND LOOK, I LOVE IT!)

If I were you I wouldn’t wear the band before the wedding, but on the day of your wedding, you can wear band then ur e-ring, then have him put band #2 on you.

Post # 12
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226 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’d save one for the wedding day and one for your one year anniversary. I know it has a “keeper”… I’m going shopping for mine soon. πŸ˜€

Probably won’t be as blingy as my wedding band, but I love the tradition!

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m not superstitious at all, but I feel odd wearing mine.  Its more of the looks I’ll get from friends and family!  They’ll be like, “uh dummy you’re not married yet” lol.

Post # 14
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576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I didn’t wear mine except on the day we got them. I wanted it to be exciting when I finally got to wear them!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I’m getting 2 as well, and as tempted as I am to wear them early, I want to save them for when I’m married.  I like the way my e-ring alone says, “I’m engaged!”  I want to enjoy this short time πŸ™‚

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