Two best friends and a sister – all maids of honor

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

I dont think you can have all three as maids of honour. Have them all as bridesmaids or pick your best friend. 

Post # 17
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Buzzing bee

If we are all into “it’s my wedding I’ll do as I please” as we ALWAYS claim to be, then where OH WHERE do we come up with the iron clad LAW that one can’t have more than one “__________ of Honor”?

A dear relative chose both of her married, dearly loved sisters as Matrons of Honor, and so far after a few years all three marriages and relationships are going strong, and I heard not ONE even faintly concerned comment at the wedding or the social activities surrounding it that there were two honor attendants.

If anyone WERE to CARE that there were more than the LEGAL number of ANYTHING in a wedding, and then absurdly to vocalize their inane thought, WHY would their opinion be more important than that of the bride, who cared deeply for more than one of her relatives and/or associates?

These nonsensical nitpicking meaningless decisions provided by some “important”(?) wedding “advisor” certainly seem to me to cause MUCH more trouble than good in the process of wedding planning. 

MY RULE- make decisions based on love and kindness and respect for participants and guests and loved ones, peer into your future and decide if decisions lovingly made will become fond memories, then GO WITH THEM. 

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